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Willie knows God very well. He is also very knowlegeable on the subject of porn. Stop reading books that suggest getting an accountability partner. By the time you've viewed porn, then the accountability is a moot point. You can't be accountable AFTER you've done it. Willie knows what he's talking about and has recommended this book to countless others here who struggle with porn.
J
That would be fantastic.. I'm doing what's advised in two books, both best sellers and am seeing God do amazing things with my freedom. I am more empowered than ever before. I want to be what God has called me to be, to pure. Being good looking has little to do with it but it's makes life difficult sometimes. I am free from porn I just want to stay pure and accountable. (Glancing and beautiful women on the street must stop) I know it sounds little but these little "sins" are things I must stop.
J
Hi Lady Blue,
I've read a lot of your posts and am thankful for you and the help you provide so many, I've even liked many of your posts. You are a true woman of God.
I am not not here to bash Jo"Willie T" somehow he has made this post about himself which shows a lack of love, look throughout the post. I'm the one asking for help that is prescribed by pastors who have helped thousands if not tens of thousands to freedom from lust. If Jon wanted to help he would have mentioned the book I should read months ago and posted a reply directed toward my need not his own pride or want for approval.
Once again we continue to discuss Jon when this post has nothing to do with him.
I've read a lot of your posts and am thankful for you and the help you provide so many, I've even liked many of your posts. You are a true woman of God.
I am not not here to bash Jo"Willie T" somehow he has made this post about himself which shows a lack of love, look throughout the post. I'm the one asking for help that is prescribed by pastors who have helped thousands if not tens of thousands to freedom from lust. If Jon wanted to help he would have mentioned the book I should read months ago and posted a reply directed toward my need not his own pride or want for approval.
Once again we continue to discuss Jon when this post has nothing to do with him.
Well, if you're content to read the books you already have, then why add the book Willie recommended, to your collection? I know nothing about porn addiction, except that it must be a very tough habit to break. You may want to do some research for yourself on just how many people are actually helped by having an accountability partner. To be fair, until today I haven't seen you post a thread about your porn problem or the need for an accountability partner. So how could Willie have recommended it months ago, when he hasn't been aware of your problem until today?
I think your best accountability partner would be GOD. Not a person who isn't always available when you need them. Like I said before, God is ALWAYS there, no matter what time of day or night.
I think your best accountability partner would be GOD. Not a person who isn't always available when you need them. Like I said before, God is ALWAYS there, no matter what time of day or night.
J
Thank you Jon,
I will look into that book, I really appreciate that. I mean it. I can understand why you would feel like having an accountability partner isn't helpful however people are different and may not be as half hearted as you think.
I apologise for for my words if they have hurt you, I just felt as though you weren't being helpful. I understand now, thank you.
I will look into that book, I really appreciate that. I mean it. I can understand why you would feel like having an accountability partner isn't helpful however people are different and may not be as half hearted as you think.
I apologise for for my words if they have hurt you, I just felt as though you weren't being helpful. I understand now, thank you.
Well, if you're content to read the books you already have, then why add the book Willie recommended, to your collection? I know nothing about porn addiction, except that it must be a very tough habit to break. You may want to do some research for yourself on just how many people are actually helped by having an accountability partner. To be fair, until today I haven't seen you post a thread about your porn problem or the need for an accountability partner. So how could Willie have recommended it months ago, when he hasn't been aware of your problem until today?
I think your best accountability partner would be GOD. Not a person who isn't always available when you need them. Like I said before, God is ALWAYS there, no matter what time of day or night.
I think your best accountability partner would be GOD. Not a person who isn't always available when you need them. Like I said before, God is ALWAYS there, no matter what time of day or night.
Yes, but beautiful women are everywhere, and glancing at them is virtually impossible.. And maybe you could explain a bit more, on why you need an accountability partner, if you've been "set free" from porn? I don't understand that comment entirely.. lol... I don't have any sex addictions, but when I see a hot guy, I DO go "dang he's cute". lol.. So theres nothing wrong with looking, it's the ACTING on it you gotta watch out for.
OOPS, that should be "why not add the book Willie recommended." lol
Well, if you're content to read the books you already have, then why add the book Willie recommended, to your collection? I know nothing about porn addiction, except that it must be a very tough habit to break. You may want to do some research for yourself on just how many people are actually helped by having an accountability partner. To be fair, until today I haven't seen you post a thread about your porn problem or the need for an accountability partner. So how could Willie have recommended it months ago, when he hasn't been aware of your problem until today?
I think your best accountability partner would be GOD. Not a person who isn't always available when you need them. Like I said before, God is ALWAYS there, no matter what time of day or night.
I think your best accountability partner would be GOD. Not a person who isn't always available when you need them. Like I said before, God is ALWAYS there, no matter what time of day or night.
I'm still not Jon. (He's bald... I'm not. LOL) And you really would have a hard time hurting me with words. I have taught this stuff to deniers, disillusionists, and dreamers for well over two decades. And I also apologize if I was too sharp. It's just that I probably have close to a hundred posts on this forum, alone, concerning this, and no one ever seems to avail themselves of the SEARCH feature built into the forum. I have learened many, many years ago that Accountability Partners are a hopeless dream.
J
I completely understand what you're saying, however Paul says there shouldn't be even a hint of sexual immorality in the church (people of God), the King Jesus the Christ says that the pure in heart will see God and again if anyone looks at a woman with lust in his heart he has committed adultery. I am not a lascivious man looking at every women that crosses my path but I do know when I am closer to God that I don't look at women with the wrong motives (undressing with eyes). I know purity because I am pure when I closest to the Lord Jesus.
accountability is just that, somebody who wants this for you and prays for you hoping the best while encouraging. In a world where men talk and ogle over women together whistling at them and treating them as objects God is calling men to encourage one another in Holiness and godliness. Yes, Paul said this so why aren't more men doing it? Because we need more Godly men.
accountability is just that, somebody who wants this for you and prays for you hoping the best while encouraging. In a world where men talk and ogle over women together whistling at them and treating them as objects God is calling men to encourage one another in Holiness and godliness. Yes, Paul said this so why aren't more men doing it? Because we need more Godly men.
Dealing with any addictions whether it be smoking, drinking or in your case pornography it will take time. God will help you overcome it as long as your fully submitted to him & willing to change. Unfortanely there are people even in the body of Christ who will just refer things opposed to personally getting involved to help another soul if it's requested.