am addicted and confused...i need ur prayers frnds

av struggled with sexual sin since 18....i was introduced into lesbianism by my sister n neighbours where i once lived...i stryggled with it for aa long time n finallyhad a break thru....i continued by having different boyfriends but never had sex with any of them....they all ended up leaving me even after making me go into masturbation..now i av a guy that loves me but am so used to masturbation dt it hurts him...i need total deliverance so i can concentrate on my ministry fully....av lost mmy peace and av lost discipline...please pray with me that God will show me kindness n heal me completely

ahh I have the perfect solution my friend! first off we all have sins and problems. I know you are wanting deliverance but first things first dont look for freedom from sexual sin. You will make an idol out of pursuing freedom from that. That dont mean keep doing it. It means to really deeply seek Christ with all you have when them desires strike. Run to him and pray and pray and cry out to God as if u were hellbound on your deathbed. Your flesh will say no but you gotta fight and the only way is by Christ. Just remember he died for your problems you are struggling with all you have to do is trust him and his finished work and repent and you will be free. a while back i had the same problem with pornography. I would cave in everytime just about. I realized during that time it was a sin competing for God's throne on my heart. I have realized Christ isnt what i needed for my freedom. He was all i had/have and deliverance came. I understand you want to do ministry, but pursue Christ and the ministry, fruits of the spirit (such as peace and joy), and deliverance will come. If you can cave in to the sexual sin then ask yourself are you truly loving Christ more than the sin? this isnt a judging message i just truly want you to see that Christ is all we have! and its such a beauty to have him inside of us. I hope this helps my dear friend.

I'll definitely be praying for you.

It might help to find someone in real life that's stronger in faith and a stronger Christian to discuss it with. It's just a suggestion. For me it was a pastor at a church. It's helped a lot with lust and other issues. He had these as well, but now he's married and has a kid, with another coming and he's totally overcome it. His accountability with his wife is amazing.

At any rate, I just prayed for you and I wish you the best. You can get over this. Don't let Satan tempt you into thinking it's impossible and giving you doubts. You can overcome this. You know what you are doing needs to change, so that's the first step. The second is finding someone you can be accountable with. Give the sin to God. He's already overcome sin for us. You just have to accept that and know that he'll overcome. I need to accept that fully too.

Many of us, Christians, have gone through ups and downs. Some come from backgrounds Christian or not, who have experienced addiction and deliverance from them many times. But I will say is that I was off one specific type of addiction for about 3 months and since then have been struggling. But I think God can deliver us from our addictions, but sometimes as sinful human beings even if we are saved, we like to put the chains or shackles of sin back on ourselves. Focus on Jesus, he will set you free from this lifestyle. Only, he can do it and there are many tools and websites with a Christian worldview that tackle this subject like Exodus International and others that I could recommend. Let us pray to God and ask him to heal you, but also when you are tempted to engage in your past sin, think positive thoughts. Like what did Jesus do for you on the cross that fateful day. He died on it for you, to take away and cover your sins, to take the wrath of God that was meant for us, etc. God bless and keep on trusting in Him to see you through and also listen to what other Christians say about this as well.

Dear Ugo... You are greatly Loved by God. When He looks at you he sees his beautiful , shining creation . All the gifts , and talents , and greatness that he has placed in you are just waiting to be seen . God loves you , and His Grace abounds toward you . He doesnt see the things that the enemy wants to define you with , He sees you . He is a Father , to the Fatherless . His Love , and His mercy , and His compassion are always there for you. What does His Word say? Lord , if I make my bed in hell , behold You are there . You know me altogether , for before I was even formed in my mothers wombs you knew me . God knows you . He waits for you . He has a Heart that beats for you . Father we lift Ugo up in prayer today and we just thank you for her. She is a precious , and indispensible part of the Family of God . Lord we just begin to take authority over the powers of darkness , that have lied , and distracted , and have delayed breakthru . Father your Word says that you have given your Angels charge , over us. Lord we pray that your ministering spirits would do battle on her behalf . That every lie that has been perpetrated by the enemy , would be exposed . Lord we thank you for peace in her mind , and in her emotions . Lord we pray that an intimacy would develope ,between You and her . One that only You and her would share . And Lord that everything else , would pale , in comparison to that relationship . Father we thank you , and we give you Praise , in the Mighty Name of Jesus , Amen

I pray and ask that our Lord helps you overcome every single thing that is standing between you and Him, I pray that he wages war on whatever it is in your life that is keeping you from where you need to be in your relationship with him. I pray that he gives to you his peace and his comfort and his joy and his strength and a new mindset that will help you overcome what you face. I pray and ask on Jesus name, amen.

ugo, It is hard to brake away from a sin that the evilone has dug deep into our life and mind.Remember you are not going through this alone the Lord is walking this out with you. The evilone will try and get you to focus on ourself and then when we do he makes us feel guilty.Do not buy into his lie anymore greater is he who is in you the he who is in the world. Learn a bible verse that speaks to youe heart and when the temptation comes on you rebuke the evilone and say your verse out loud until the feeling goes away.God has called his children overcomers if you trust in the LORD and his word you will overcome. Please stay true to yourself and god with no sex before marriage.

Father God, please strengthen Ugo in her mind and help her fight the good fight of faith. In Yeshua's Holy name I pray amen.

Praying in agreement in Jesus's name with all here for all healing from this addiction.

God bless
pickles

I agree with the other posts...
And will pray as God leads my heart.
Love & Blessings, Shekaniah

You have power to conquer this sin in Jesus! It is possible... I've experienced it in my own life. God is a deliverer!