anger....

how does a person deal with heartbreak? this person was so special to me....then he betrayed me.....ive been trying to deal with the loss but i am just in pieces. i cry every night, i lost him.. but he wants nothing to do with me! he probably has another girlfriend now. i wanted no other man except him.....he treated me like a queen, he said he loved me and i couldnt be happier. i loved him back........then things fell apart.....he broke my heart. love is a double- edged sword....

When you decide that a given action is betrayal, you make a statement. If you have stated that you do not want a relationship with someone who has done, or may do, such a thing again, and he decided that he does not want to be with you, either because you said that, or because you expect that, you and he both made a decision to follow God a certain, different way. Every relationship takes those kinds of risks if it to grow, because you do not want to spend your life unequally yoked, either. That's why they call it heartbreak (Scripture calls it letting the plans be tested in the fire, so only that which is of God survives I Cor 3:11-15, marriage is a new work in the Kingdom). In the long run, you have no choice but to move on. God's kingdom is way bigger than such things, and you will find the right one. For the same reason, you can forgive him, and forgive yourself, and let God sort it out so His plan will happen. When God's perfect comes, the imperfect (including most of the feelings) will pass away.

I know where you are coming from sis i am still going through a breakup too I loved a guy that treated me the same way you was treated then he dropped me and said that he had too much on his plate and didn't want to hurt me anymore, I leave everything in God's hands he will take care of this with the both of us sister just hang in their and stay strong is all we can do

Hugs butterflylady, there is a time of morning,but know, Jesus is close to the broken hearted.
You are in my prayers in Jesus for all the help love and His joy made compleat in your life.

Hugs and God bless
pickles

Time heals, but time take time. I have had my heart broken a time or two.

It hurts so deep. So hard and so much that colors even are deeper, sounds are more acute, and the world seems
like it's in 3-D. It seems as if you are not even there, just watching, witnessing the world go by.
These are the symptoms of extreme heartbreak.
This is your physical self reacting to the trauma of your soul.
It seems all hope is lost, and there never will be a 'good' tomorrow..........
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But all hope is not lost!
And you are not how you feel!
And you will be delivered of this seemingly unending sorrow!
Jesus faced the exact same things......the EXACT same things.
He literally sweat blood.
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He was despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows and acquainted with grief:
and we hid as it were our faces from Him; He was despised, and we esteemed Him not.
Surely He hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem Him stricken, smitten of God . - Isaiah 53:3,4
For truly He took not on Himself the nature of angels, but He took on Himself the seed of Abraham.
Wherefore in all things it behoved Him to be made like unto His breathren,
that He might be a merciful and faithful high priest.....to make reconciliation for the sins of the people.
For in that He Himself hath suffered being tempted(rejected), He is able to succour them that are also tempted(rejected) - Hebrews 2:17,18
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So, you see how Jesus was treated, and what He went through. You see how He did it so He could understand the depths of pain your at?
Now He is King of Kings, and Lord of Lords!
Hey, the state that you are in right now......that's what Jesus came for!
You got the Lord of Glory ready to help you out!
And look where He is now, far above all principalities and powers, seated at the right hand of the Father ever to make intercession
for us. (Ever to make intercession for you!)
So if He got through it (to help us), certainly He is going to help you!
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And what can stop Him?
Who can separate us from the love of God? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?
No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him that loved us.
For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life,nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,
Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature(your ex), shall be able to separate us from the Love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord. - -Romans 8:35,37,38,39

The Love Of Jesus is in this place!

Butterflylady,
I hope you feel the Love of christ to it's full depth!

Then no-one-else can ever hurt you!

His perfect Love dives out fear!

1 John 4:18
There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.

You are in my prayers!