Hi and thanks for your time.
Im new here and you will be hearing quite a lot from me on this prayer thread lol. Since me kids have all left home I now ha e a spere room. Or should I say did. About 2 and a half years ago my brother got himself into some financial difficulty through drugs and other unrighteous living. He was depressed and in trouble so I obviously stepped in to help out. He came to stay with me. In the months that followed he got himself straightened out a bit . He now earns good money and usually works hard. Although not in my house he still continues with his old lifestyle. I knew a long while ago that it was time for him to move on. The problem is , he still has a fragile state of mind. He is a stubborn man. He has a loving, loyal nature and confesses to be saved. If I bring up the situation that I need my space again he would move out and sleep in his van and if I don’t he will continue in the same habits. I know the time for change has come but whatever way it will be uncomfortable. As a Christian I should be grateful that I am the brother with the extra room but as a man I’m struggling to think his cheap life with me is enabling him his bad life choices. I love him and would never see him homeless but it is steeling my peace.
Prayers and Godly council please.
Im new here and you will be hearing quite a lot from me on this prayer thread lol. Since me kids have all left home I now ha e a spere room. Or should I say did. About 2 and a half years ago my brother got himself into some financial difficulty through drugs and other unrighteous living. He was depressed and in trouble so I obviously stepped in to help out. He came to stay with me. In the months that followed he got himself straightened out a bit . He now earns good money and usually works hard. Although not in my house he still continues with his old lifestyle. I knew a long while ago that it was time for him to move on. The problem is , he still has a fragile state of mind. He is a stubborn man. He has a loving, loyal nature and confesses to be saved. If I bring up the situation that I need my space again he would move out and sleep in his van and if I don’t he will continue in the same habits. I know the time for change has come but whatever way it will be uncomfortable. As a Christian I should be grateful that I am the brother with the extra room but as a man I’m struggling to think his cheap life with me is enabling him his bad life choices. I love him and would never see him homeless but it is steeling my peace.
Prayers and Godly council please.