Difficult Marrige and need prayer

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needgrace

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My husband left me and our kids to do truck driving. He told me he would be gone for 3 days but been gone for almost a month. Keep in mind we were seperated for 2 years recently and he had been back home for only 5 months. When he came back home he claimed he would do anything to save our marriage yet was doing the same things. I talked to him before he left and told him i felt that truck driving was not good for a person with a family and he left anyway. He was not working however he could have found a job locally. You just do not leave your. Wife and kids in certain conditions with NOTHING. I felt he could have found a job locally but he chose not to. We all are hurt.... He left us with nothing knowing my unemployment was cut-off. I pray that God send a life jacket for our marriage. My husband has hurt me in the past bad and i forgave him, he got saved, now he hurting me again. Im tired of him coming in and out our kids life. My heart is tired. He does not respect our marriage or do not care about whats going on or the way i feel. He thinks i just want to be right and i feel he is wrong..... but what man leave his family with nothing and go on the road and tells his wife he do not know when he coming back? I truely need prayer. My heart is broken.
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damombomb

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Praying for you.....
 

crmvet

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Philippians 4:19
 

crossnote

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I'm sure he wouldn't want to be treated the way he is treating you...praying for conviction and repentance.
 
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Pappy

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Ill pray for you my friend.....Be strong and pull strength from Gods love.... God Bless you and the Kids....
 
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ji

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My husband left me and our kids to do truck driving. He told me he would be gone for 3 days but been gone for almost a month. Keep in mind we were seperated for 2 years recently and he had been back home for only 5 months. When he came back home he claimed he would do anything to save our marriage yet was doing the same things. I talked to him before he left and told him i felt that truck driving was not good for a person with a family and he left anyway. He was not working however he could have found a job locally. You just do not leave your. Wife and kids in certain conditions with NOTHING. I felt he could have found a job locally but he chose not to. We all are hurt.... He left us with nothing knowing my unemployment was cut-off. I pray that God send a life jacket for our marriage. My husband has hurt me in the past bad and i forgave him, he got saved, now he hurting me again. Im tired of him coming in and out our kids life. My heart is tired. He does not respect our marriage or do not care about whats going on or the way i feel. He thinks i just want to be right and i feel he is wrong..... but what man leave his family with nothing and go on the road and tells his wife he do not know when he coming back? I truely need prayer. My heart is broken.
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Dear Sister,
Do not faint.And even if you feel weary lean on Jesus.It's a hard thing when the man of the house leaves his family.I think he is afraid of something real bad.Something he couldn't discuss about.And that might have made him tired to move on in a family life.Do not give up Hope on God.If you belong to some Church Fellowship,do ask them for assistance.Do not feel shy about it.If you do not have one,do Pray to God give you one.He will give the best.

I will Pray for your man's return back to home.Lean on God always,He is strong to Lead and also, be gentle with your husband and try to understand his pain.If you are not able or if he is not at all willing,give it to God.God will take care of it.

God Bless.I don't have any experience in family life,but felt burdened to tell you this.
 
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kenthomas27

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Agreeing with these in prayer.
 
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MTplainsman

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Another prayer said. May the Lord force him to review his life, and if you need to review too, now's the time... and than pray... and than pray some more.

God bless you my friend.
 
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latangela3

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I'm new here at christian chat. I also have a similar situation as needgrace my husband drives trucks we have 5 kids we have nothing but problems with our marriage he is starting to act distant and I can't talk with him he is pushing me away. Please pray for me and my family that things will get better.
 
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latangela3

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Remember your not alone.