Divorce

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David001

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I'm in need of some serious prayer, my wife out of no where hired a lawyer, filed for divorce and then left me, my heart and my apartment empty. Not only was I devastated but a week or so later I find out she slept with another man after filing for divorce. Now I know God only gives people situations he thinks your strong enough for, but how can anyone comprehend the thought of their spouse sleeping with another man; now that's beyond devastating.

I'm not one to show much emotion, but wow, I've never cried so much in my life this past month.

Side note: Paying $1,500 for lawyer and then sleeping with another man isn't cheating but it's the equivalency of prostitution, in my opinion.
 
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paulsfam4

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let her Go! and pray for her,.the divorce in gods eyes is on her. from what you are saying.
 
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chabelle

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David.. I am so sorry.. you are going thru that, I am here for you if you wish to talk.. leave everything in Gods hands... calm down breathe... you are strong enough.. you're not alone... just hang in there...
 
RickyZ

RickyZ

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If an unbelieving spouse wants to leave you are to let her go. And obviously she doesn't believe her vows were forever. But seriously, man, you have to make yourself scarce. People want that which they can't have. So make yourself something she can't have. Fleeing partners are like balloons - the tighter you try to squeeze them here, the more they're going to bulge out over there. Just let her go, be the cool guy she never expected you to be, and be the guy that somewhere down the road she's going to say hmmm, maybe I shouldn't have been so foolish about.

Give her room to breathe. Pray for her, as I am for you both. The Holy Spirit is actually the best convictor, pray the Spirit convict her, but do not convict her yourself. She'll see a closed door if you do.
 
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PeaceAF

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I am deeply sorry and will pray for you. Im sure in a million years you thought that wouldn't happen to you.
Continue to pray and have faith that GOD is with you. You are probably an great person and thats what she missed out on for the rest of her life. When she finds GOD she will realize her mistakes and GOD will open her eyes. This is kind of why i fear marriage -for this reason, because it always questions if we REALLY understand and know our partner the way we say we do and are they committed to you like they say they are. i am sorry once again, please email me if you would like to talk

[email protected]
and remember god is with you even through this horrible time in your life.
 
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