Filled with anger and fatigue

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Please pray for me. Increasingly I am overwhelmed with anger about everything and everyone. I don't want to be like this and would never harm anyone.
Unfortunately that means it is all inside, making me more and more unwell. The anger and resentment is about all sorts of reasons over a long time.
I have forgotten what it is to be relaxed and happy, as I was when I was a child. I am so very tired.
 
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MaryM said:
Please pray for me. Increasingly I am overwhelmed with anger about everything and everyone. I don't want to be like this and would never harm anyone.
Unfortunately that means it is all inside, making me more and more unwell. The anger and resentment is about all sorts of reasons over a long time.
I have forgotten what it is to be relaxed and happy, as I was when I was a child. I am so very tired.
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I've resorted to the stoic approach to navigating through this life. It is one that is not about denying our emotions as much as it is not allowing them to determine our reaction to outside forces. Another way of putting it is, "what happens outside of me cannot affect what happens inside of me" and so my inner peace is guarded. That's really the only thing I'm left any power over, because "out there" is total chaos. May the Lord bless you and keep you in His perfect peace.
 
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MaryM said:
Please pray for me. Increasingly I am overwhelmed with anger about everything and everyone. I don't want to be like this and would never harm anyone.
Unfortunately that means it is all inside, making me more and more unwell. The anger and resentment is about all sorts of reasons over a long time.
I have forgotten what it is to be relaxed and happy, as I was when I was a child. I am so very tired.
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Adrenal fatigue can result from long term stress, physical or emotional trauma.
I would look for online help from a natural pathic doctor with a good reputation after sharing this with your pastor.
A good friend and family member can be of help too. Also remember that one ministry of the Holy Spirit is the Comforter. He is available in times like these.

Best to you for a strong recovery.
 
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Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.

- Romans 8:26 (KJV)
 
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MaryM said:
Please pray for me. Increasingly I am overwhelmed with anger about everything and everyone. I don't want to be like this and would never harm anyone.
Unfortunately that means it is all inside, making me more and more unwell. The anger and resentment is about all sorts of reasons over a long time.
I have forgotten what it is to be relaxed and happy, as I was when I was a child. I am so very tired.
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I must be slow to anger. (b) I must also be quick to listen and slow to speak. (c) I will be slow to anger. (d) I will be quick to listen. (e) I will be slow to speak. (Jas_1:19)
I will not be so foolish as to get annoyed. (Pro_12:16)
It takes great understanding to be slow to anger. I lift up my voice for this understanding. I will not have a hasty temper, so as to exalt folly. (Pro_14:29; Pro_2:1-4)
Anger is a work of the flesh. But I belong to Jesus and have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.(Gal_5:20; Gal_5:24)
I must answer softly and not speak harshly. (Pro_15:1)
I must be slow to anger and quiet contention. (Pro_15:18)
I must be slow to anger and rule my spirit. (Pro_16:32)
Good sense makes me slow to anger, and it is to my glory to overlook an offense. (Pro_19:11)
I must not provoke God to anger. (Pro_20:2)
I can give gifts in secret to avert anger. (Pro_21:14)
I make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor do I go with a wrathful man. (Pro_22:24)
A fool gives full vent to his anger but I choose by God's grace to quietly hold it back. (Pro_29:11)
I mustn't hold on to wrath and anger because it stirs up strife, and causes much transgression. (Pro_29:22)
In my anger I am careful not to sin; I do not let the sun go down on my anger. (Eph_4:26)
I put away all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander, with all malice. (Eph_4:31)
I do not provoke my spiritual children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. (Eph_6:4)
I put away anger, wrath, malice, slander and foul talk from my mouth. (Col_3:8)
I desire that I should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarrelling. (1Ti_2:8)
I am not afraid of the anger of the unrighteous. (Heb_11:27)


You are not alone-I am going through this myself.
J.
 
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Johann said:
I must be slow to anger. (b) I must also be quick to listen and slow to speak. (c) I will be slow to anger. (d) I will be quick to listen. (e) I will be slow to speak. (Jas_1:19)
I will not be so foolish as to get annoyed. (Pro_12:16)
It takes great understanding to be slow to anger. I lift up my voice for this understanding. I will not have a hasty temper, so as to exalt folly. (Pro_14:29; Pro_2:1-4)
Anger is a work of the flesh. But I belong to Jesus and have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires.(Gal_5:20; Gal_5:24)
I must answer softly and not speak harshly. (Pro_15:1)
I must be slow to anger and quiet contention. (Pro_15:18)
I must be slow to anger and rule my spirit. (Pro_16:32)
Good sense makes me slow to anger, and it is to my glory to overlook an offense. (Pro_19:11)
I must not provoke God to anger. (Pro_20:2)
I can give gifts in secret to avert anger. (Pro_21:14)
I make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor do I go with a wrathful man. (Pro_22:24)
A fool gives full vent to his anger but I choose by God's grace to quietly hold it back. (Pro_29:11)
I mustn't hold on to wrath and anger because it stirs up strife, and causes much transgression. (Pro_29:22)
In my anger I am careful not to sin; I do not let the sun go down on my anger. (Eph_4:26)
I put away all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander, with all malice. (Eph_4:31)
I do not provoke my spiritual children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. (Eph_6:4)
I put away anger, wrath, malice, slander and foul talk from my mouth. (Col_3:8)
I desire that I should pray, lifting holy hands without anger or quarrelling. (1Ti_2:8)
I am not afraid of the anger of the unrighteous. (Heb_11:27)


You are not alone-I am going through this myself.
J.
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Absolutely, I need to control the anger inside me when people treat me badly. I automatically stay quiet because I hate confrontation, I just want a quiet life. Yet inside I seethe. I know that negative energy is draining my vitality and producing disease. Knowing that just makes me more angry.
I am praying for help from Jesus.
 
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Philippians 4:6-7
 
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MaryM said:
Absolutely, I need to control the anger inside me when people treat me badly. I automatically stay quiet because I hate confrontation, I just want a quiet life. Yet inside I seethe. I know that negative energy is draining my vitality and producing disease. Knowing that just makes me more angry.
I am praying for help from Jesus.
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You need to surround yourself with genuine friends or with believers who don't have their heads "in the clouds" also you might want to consider seeing a doctor-nothing wrong with that.
Johann.
 
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Where coffee may induce irritability, the vitamin B complex provides a similar 'pick me up' and also possesses stress reducing components to it, . It just isn't as enjoyable experience to administer as coffee is but much more 'essential' than coffee. Also, a topical application of magnesium helps to repair the damage that stress might have incurred and so also has stress relieving properties. I think that there must be something to the reality that the skin so readily absorbs it, and I'd venture to say even eagerly like it thirsts for it and carries it to whatever most critic area of need. I think of it as sort of the triage of well-being.
 
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I keep a supply of Frankincense and Myrrh essential oil blend also, commonly put into anointing oils. This provides me with the natural benefits of each as well as reminds me of God's blessings of healing and refuge when applying it. Myrrh has pain relieving properties, but I forget the exact benefits of Frankincense other than its pleasant aroma.
 
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MaryM said:
Please pray for me. Increasingly I am overwhelmed with anger about everything and everyone. I don't want to be like this and would never harm anyone.
Unfortunately that means it is all inside, making me more and more unwell. The anger and resentment is about all sorts of reasons over a long time.
I have forgotten what it is to be relaxed and happy, as I was when I was a child. I am so very tired.
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MaryM,

This is a class that you may be interested in.
Dr. Hyman is addressing brain inflammation as it pertains to food consumption. This is a common source of various disorders that are helped by personal choices. Even if it is not related to your challenges whatsoever, I believe that he makes some good observations and might be helpful for overall health.

He tries to pack as much info into the time as possible. If he goes too fast to focus, I would break it up into 15 minute+/- intervals or go to the settings ( cog/ wheel shaped icon) and adjust the speed accordingly.

Dr. Hyman
 
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MaryM said:
Please pray for me. Increasingly I am overwhelmed with anger about everything and everyone. I don't want to be like this and would never harm anyone.
Unfortunately that means it is all inside, making me more and more unwell. The anger and resentment is about all sorts of reasons over a long time.
I have forgotten what it is to be relaxed and happy, as I was when I was a child. I am so very tired.
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'I can only hope and pray perhaps you will have a spiritual awakening. I assure you this forever changed my life." :)

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