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I married a beautiful lady 13 years ago, but she has alot of unhealed hurt in her life. She struggles with alcohol and other things as a result. In her early 20's the Lord started to draw her. I met her and we got married and when our marriage hit some bumps, I stopped communicating properly. She went out and got drunk then had an affair. This was 4 years ago.We got counselling but I struggled with unforgiveness and got really depressed. She moved out last fall a week before my dad died. That really hurt but she did stay in contact with me. This spring she was coming to see me and I was starting to wonder if there was hope. But then she stopped talking and I knew something was up. Turns out she slipped back to alcohol and into a relationship with an alcoholic. My heart sank but I began to pray. I have talked with her and she started to come around but then she hardened and did not totally trust me or the Lord working in me. Long story short is she has been trying to leave him and get help, and return to the Lord, but she is struggling to get away from him. I confronted him today to leave her alone and I looked into some very cold eyes. He said he likes what he is doing. She is mad at me too but I risked it to defend my marriage, our vows, and her. She knows she needs to get out and get help but she does not see clear enough yet, although I know the Lord is working on her. As the Lord is totally changing me and given me a love for her even now, she is still somewhat hard. She does not want to be with me either. Please pray that the Lord will open her eyes, that she wiill return to Him, and if He is willing, that she returns to me as well. Pray for her protection physically, emotionally, and spiritually, but that true repentance and healng happens for her. Pray that this man leaves her alone. I know God does not leave things undone, and my burden and love for her is real but so is the battle. Pray for me for wisdom strength and for the truth to prevail . I want a testimony after this and a ministry to help others in these situations. I want my wife set free and back with me. PLEASE PRAY
