hate, jealousy, hurt

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sandtigeress

Senior Member
Apr 29, 2013
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Hi,

please pray for me.
I am plagued by bad feelings and I do not want to feel hate towards my ex partner.
I do not want to hurt myself with this jealousy.

He is no longer mine and I have no right to feel so hurt, when he goes
out with someone else, to something he would not have considered
to go out to with me.

Please lord help me to forgive him, for not fightig for our love and please
lord help me to acept the live the way it is.
 
Jan 20, 2015
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#2
Hi,

please pray for me.
I am plagued by bad feelings and I do not want to feel hate towards my ex partner.
I do not want to hurt myself with this jealousy.

He is no longer mine and I have no right to feel so hurt, when he goes
out with someone else, to something he would not have considered
to go out to with me.

Please lord help me to forgive him, for not fightig for our love and please
lord help me to acept the live the way it is.
What you're feeling is normal, you have to go through those bad feelings to get better. Dont suppress them because that will make your healing take longer.
 
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JustinFromTwinCities

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#3
What you're feeling is normal, you have to go through those bad feelings to get better. Dont suppress them because that will make your healing take longer.
Well, those feelings are normal to the flesh atleast. But it is good you do not want them to overwhelm you and do not want to give in to ways of the flesh. God works all things for the good of those who love Him. Trust God and take this time to draw near to Him in prayer. I will pray for you also as you have requested.
 

1joseph

Senior Member
Dec 14, 2014
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#4
"Yes, Heavenly Father, help sandtigeress to accept Your Will in her life. 'For all things work together for the good of those who love You and are called according to Your purpose.' ([SUB]Romans 8:28) [/SUB]In Jesus' name I pray. Amen."
 

Joidevivre

Senior Member
Jul 15, 2014
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#5
Dear Father, Break Sandtigresses emotional connection to her ex, and in so doing to set herself free. Remind her that you are all she needs. Fill her days with new interests that will give her pleasure.

You are the well of love that she may draw from daily. Bring her into a renewed exciting relationship with you that will restore her broken heart.

Amen.
 

SoulWeaver

Senior Member
Oct 25, 2014
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#6
What you're feeling is normal, you have to go through those bad feelings to get better. Dont suppress them because that will make your healing take longer.
She is not surpressing them, she is acknowledging them and chooses better than that.
Praying that God will give her the peace and forgiveness she asked for. amen
 
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Sirk

Guest
#7
All of those feelings are angry feelings. Anger is the result of unprocessed pain. Anger is a secondary emotion and is also an indication of a crossed boundary or violated core belief. IF you want to get past anger, you have to chase the pain that is underlying it and process it.
 

KBond

Senior Member
Jun 5, 2013
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#8
Lord, I pray for santigress to be set free from those feelings that are not according to Your perfect will. I pray You would give her feelings of peace, joy, and hope according to the Spirit within her. Thank You, Lord, for all of the good things you are about to do in her life. In Christ's Name, Amen.
 
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VioletReigns

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#9
Father God, our sister Sandtigeress is heartbroken and in emotional turmoil. I know You hear the cries of her heart! We stand with her and agree that You alone can help establish right thoughts in her and make this turn out for her good. I pray she find rest in You and hear Your tender Voice above all others. I pray Lord that Sandtigeress will discover You the Lover of her soul and that she would find refuge in Your great arms of love. Keep her heart and don't let it be trampled on by this world, Lord. Thank You, Jesus.
 

levi85

Senior Member
Jul 2, 2013
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give your understanding, and remove every negative thoughts, yes Lord Jesus, bless sanditigress, Amen
 
Jan 20, 2015
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She is not surpressing them, she is acknowledging them and chooses better than that.
Praying that God will give her the peace and forgiveness she asked for. amen
I never said she did, I said "dont" suppress them.
 

RickyZ

Senior Member
Sep 20, 2012
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#12
And I ad my amen to all these prayers, even stabbo's. Lord heal sandtigress in both spirit and flesh.
 
Jan 27, 2015
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God of Comfort, we ask that You heal sandtigeress' broken heart. We offer her heart to You, Lord, to hold it in Your gentle hands and fill it with Your love and peace. We trust that Your will for her life is greater than we could ever ask for or imagine. May Your will be done.