I do not belong

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savedandhopeful

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I am feeling like I do not belong anywhere....in my marriage...family...church...it seems like all I do is hurt those I love. I really do not know how to get through this..I have never felt so hopeles and utterly alone...I admit..I am scared...
 
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Bryancampbell

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Don't be scared sister, remember you are a part of us in the body of Christ. Do not fear. Everything on the outside can look and grow dim, but the love that God provides us is like a light that never burns. A lot of us struggle with the same things sometimes, but we manage to stick to our God, our Father, because He draws near to those who need Him. Be courageous, after this life, we will have new bodies, the mortal will put on the immortal and the perishable with the imperishable. And forever be with Him.
 
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GRA

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I am feeling like I do not belong anywhere....in my marriage...family...church...it seems like all I do is hurt those I love. I really do not know how to get through this..I have never felt so hopeles and utterly alone...I admit..I am scared...
If you feel comfortable doing so, please explain what this is about...

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pickles

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Apr 20, 2009
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Saved and hopefull, please do not let despair steal from you.
For you are loved in Jesus by God Our Father with a love that is so great, and so perfect, that you would dance with joy to know it.
This time may seem hopeless and scarey, but it only seems like this because God is bringing in you a faith that does not need flesh, but is known in His spirit, and will sustain you through every trial or tribulation.
I witness to this because I have felt as you do, and was so low I wondered if I could even keep breathing the pain was so great.
Then God said, praise me!
Now I know this may seem impossible, but it wasnt, I praised God Our Father first in a barely adible voice, then as I continued a streangth , hope and joy filled me and I began to see His great love poured out and His glory.
You see, I began to see that by praiseing God Our Father in my deep dispair, He was calling me to set my flesh asdie, and put all my trust in Him.
It was in doing so that He showed me His presance in Jesus, in me, and the life we are called to in Him.
And I saw His loved poured out upon us, me, you, was given first, not because we desreve it or could earn it, but simply because He loves you more because you are His creation, child. :)
Please know in faith , savedandhopeful, that His joy, His love, is already withyou, the pain you feel lives in flesh, but the peace, love and joy that is already with you, is alive in His spirit, which is the life you recieived when you were saved.
Look to Jesus, not the flesh or the things of the world or your own mistakes, look to Jesus, and in faith, trust all to God Our Father.
Then you will begin to know as we all have learned, that none of us belong to the world, but are all one with Jesus, and in Him, one with God our Father.
For you no longer live in flesh, but spirit, the spirit we all recieived when we died with Jesus, and were born again in His spirit. :)
You remain in my prayers in Jesus, for all that is the love of Jesus to fill you overflowing, and the peace that surpasses all understanding. :)


Huge hugs and God bless
pickles, your sister in Jesus :)
 

pickles

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Apr 20, 2009
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just wanted to bump you back to the top so all your family in Jesus would see your need and pray for you. :)

God bless
pickles
 
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Water1944

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I am so sorry. You belong to God, He loves you and created you, that will never change. Please try to slow down and take one problem at a time, so you will feel less stressed. Are you able to meet and talk with your pastor at church? You will get help and support here, but it sounds like you need some face to face. I'm praying for you. Hugs hugs hugs hugs
 

sandtigeress

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Apr 29, 2013
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You fit in with god, if you want that.
He has a place for all of us, no matter how we are made and even how bad we have remade ourselves.
God wants us and he calls us his children.