I feel hated

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RockinMan2010

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Nov 17, 2009
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everytime I say hi in chat 9 times out of 10 they don't say hi to me after I do and it just makes me feel left out I don't know I guess I am hated and I need help w/a picture idea w/my username RockinMan2010 or RockinMan in comic sans letters and please pray for me everyone thank you god bless
 

JimJimmers

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Apr 26, 2012
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I will pray for you, Rockinman. Rock on!
 
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webchatter

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Emotions are not valuable, except for fear. fear may keep you from getting hurt. It's like a warning sign. But your fear has to be a reasonable fear to be worth anything too. Otherwise it can hurt you. File your emotions away in file # 13= the trash can. Pray. Don't allow your emotions to decide for you, what kind of day you are going to have. I'm praying for you.
 
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liz247

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Well Rockinman , you are not hated and do not worry the same thing has happened to me, so be of good cheer and Don't let satan speak those lies to you. God Bless you
 
Oct 11, 2012
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Yes, I agree.
I get in chat and a lot of times, people are caught up with the topic of conversation to greet every person who comes in.
That's a lot of the reason I don't go in there a lot unless I'm bored.

There are a lot of cool people who hang around on the forums! Don't get discouraged. Put yourself out there and show everyone how cool you are!
I'll be your friend.

:)
 
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HelenTn

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maybe they are busy with something else and its too many people in and out as we can see in the main chat, you are definetly not be hated, say no to saitan, and God bless you always.
 

pickles

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Apr 20, 2009
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RockinMan, Jesus said, keep your eyes on me.
So stop looking or seeing things that are not good, and look to He who is perfect, Jesus! :)
For if we look for what is wrong, that is all we will see,
But when we look for what is good, we will see good! :)
You continue in my prayers in Jesus.

God bless
Your friend
pickles
 
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psychomom

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Satan will lie to us,
and our feelings will lie to us,
but the Lord never, ever will. :)

He says, I love you!
He says, You are valuable to Me!

You are of much value (precious) to us, too. ♥
And you are in my prayers, beloved.
-ellie
 
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shekaniah

Guest
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RocketMan,

I don't do chat...I stick to forums.
I like to think too much before I answer.
I think I would be ignored in chat.

We love you here in the forums :)

Smile...it will make your heart glad :)

Love in Jesus, Shekaniah
 
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psychomom

Guest
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RocketMan,

I don't do chat...I stick to forums.
I like to think too much before I answer.
I think I would be ignored in chat.
Here is great wisdom for anyone who sees it! :)

And she's right,

We do love you here in the forums. ♥
-ellie
 

loveme1

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Oct 30, 2011
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Remember that it is not the "reply" but your "Hi" that counts.

I have not used chat for a while but i must say for all those that do not feel like saying Hi or may of simply missed you saying Hi i remember there would always be one person that would reply :)
 
Dec 19, 2009
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everytime I say hi in chat 9 times out of 10 they don't say hi to me after I do and it just makes me feel left out I don't know I guess I am hated and I need help w/a picture idea w/my username RockinMan2010 or RockinMan in comic sans letters and please pray for me everyone thank you god bless
I never go to the chat rooms, partly because I don't have time and partly because I am probably too old. I have fun in the forums.
 

flowerof3

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May 1, 2011
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well i haven't been in the chat rooms but i don't think your hated by anyone on this site , plus you have a very friendly looking face, nice picture
 
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LouiseDritz

Guest
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Happens to me all the time and I feel left out, too, Rockinman.
 

Jilly81

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Jan 16, 2011
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Louise and Matt, please don't feel bad; it's REALLY hard to watch the main chat and say hello to everyone. We all feel left out sometimes, I'm quite certain. Keep in mind that you are loved by the One Who has the agape love- the best kind of all :). Try to get to know Him, and then the lack of hellos from people don't seem to matter as much; it works for me :). Hmmm, I just posting this video for someone else, but it's appropriate here, too, so I'll paste it here also :).

[video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yfr5rOfimnU[/video]
 
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psychomom

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Happens to me all the time and I feel left out, too, Rockinman.
I'm praying for you, too, sweet pea! ♥
The Lord loves you so much more than any one of us can possibly imagine.
And we love you, too. :)
-ellie
 

Shilo

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Aug 31, 2011
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Praying for you