I need pray so much

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Reallyhurting

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My name here is Reallyhurting I need pray for my marriage and my wife. She is going through something an I don't know what. I have explain everything in the newcomers area under I need to feel God. I'm so lost and don't know what to do. Please God help us. I need your pray please
 
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TashMeyer76

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Brother - your wife is probably hormonal, at her age it is quite possible. If she's undergone a very drastic emotional and mental change I really would suggest that you take her to a doctor, they can test her hormones levels. It is amazing how these things can affect women.

If you believe that God can set her free, then lets pray for that.

Father - as my prayer earlier for our brother - we pray that you will raise them up and wrap them as a couple in your love and grace. Bring healing where hormones may be affected, touch her soul and mind where needed. Give our brother peace and patience in your Glory and Grace, also give him understanding in the matters of an aging wife.

Amen
 
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Reallyhurting

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She will not go to the dr cause she sId she don't have a problem. I believe God can heal her and us
 
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Nancyer

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Prayers for you both. God does heal but through others most of the time. That's why he led people into the medical field. You can't be a doctor without a calling to be a doctor, it takes too much time, work and effort to just pick it. Pray that the doctors will know what she needs and what to do. Please let God heal her through those He puts in your path. Just because someone goes to a doctor and is healed doesn't mean God didn't heal him.
 
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MTplainsman

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Prayer said for you both. Tash might have something there. I have heard of otherwise happy couples going all the way to divorce over a hormonal woman. In fact I knew a couple not many years ago, in which the wife completely flew off the handle for no reason. The man was hurting terribly over this. I asked him if he had been doing anything at all he could think of to annoy her, but he could not come up with a single thing. They went through several episodes of separation over this, and before divorce happened she snapped out of it and things were normal. I have heard similar stories like this from other close friends. A girl I am close friends with had this happen after she had her baby many years back. She said she was definitely in love with her boyfriend and in fact crazy about him. Than not much time after the birth of their child, she said he had came back after a couple days to stay with her. When he came to care for her and baby, she told me, that she couldn't even look at him in the face without feeling nauseous. She said that she couldn't even stand to be in the same room with him, and though he wanted to be loving and helpful so badly, she had to tell him to stay away. In the end, she told him they had to split up. She also said that she loved her baby, but at the same time felt depressed over it. I know this sounds very strange, and it doesn't make sense to most, but this hormonal stuff is a reality. I hope she sees someone about this, and if she denies it, may prayer correct it. It could be something else, but I wonder...

Prayer said for you guys, God bless, and keep us posted.
 
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TashMeyer76

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ReallyHurting - if your wife does not want to go to the doctor, perhaps you can go and ask him what you can do? Sometimes Doctors can help whether they have seen the patient or not. I'm so sorry that this is not an easy thing for you, and I really pray and trust that God will intervene for your sake and hers. God Bless.

Prayer said for you both. Tash might have something there. I have heard of otherwise happy couples going all the way to divorce over a hormonal woman. In fact I knew a couple not many years ago, in which the wife completely flew off the handle for no reason. The man was hurting terribly over this. I asked him if he had been doing anything at all he could think of to annoy her, but he could not come up with a single thing. They went through several episodes of separation over this, and before divorce happened she snapped out of it and things were normal. I have heard similar stories like this from other close friends. A girl I am close friends with had this happen after she had her baby many years back. She said she was definitely in love with her boyfriend and in fact crazy about him. Than not much time after the birth of their child, she said he had came back after a couple days to stay with her. When he came to care for her and baby, she told me, that she couldn't even look at him in the face without feeling nauseous. She said that she couldn't even stand to be in the same room with him, and though he wanted to be loving and helpful so badly, she had to tell him to stay away. In the end, she told him they had to split up. She also said that she loved her baby, but at the same time felt depressed over it. I know this sounds very strange, and it doesn't make sense to most, but this hormonal stuff is a reality. I hope she sees someone about this, and if she denies it, may prayer correct it. It could be something else, but I wonder...

Prayer said for you guys, God bless, and keep us posted.
 
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Reallyhurting

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What happen to the vows people make to each other and to God?
 
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TashMeyer76

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Those vows remain standing brother, right now your Wife is going through a tough time and the worst is she does not comprehend or know.I really do think you need to sit down with her and let her see that you love her and how her current state of mind is affecting you. Tell her that you need her to help you to help her.

Maybe you should find one of your wives good friends to talk to her, does she have a sister or a brother who could help?

I'll continue praying.
 
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Reallyhurting

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Yes she has sisters. But she will not even talk to them cause she don't want anybody to know her feeling or problems. Thanks for the prays.