Im 18, is he the one for me: I keep having dreams about him:

Im 18: and I want to get married soon: All I life I wanted to marry a Spanish Guy: And when I was 13, I wrote in my journal what kind of Spanish guy I wanted: A christian, tall, dark, and handsome with dark hair and dark eyes: That was when i was 13, and now im 18, and i meet this guy who's EXACTLY what i wrote when i was 13: And, I keep having these dreams about him: I dont know if there dreams from God: The first dream I had about him was: On his facebook, it said: " from single to in a relationship" the second dream was me and him went to carval ice cream, I also dreamt of a Blue Diamond: I had a blue diamond necklace and he was about to appear: and I looked up blue diamond, and it means: " something unexpected, rare" and it sounds like him, we got got togther: and last night's dream: I saw him im my dreams, and I asked him how he was, and he said in my dreams :0 " I just got a blessing" and I said about what? and he was quiet... :0 ( was it me?? ) and I said congrats... " So Im praying if this guy is the one God has for me, and for God to put it on his heart, and also let him have these dreams too if he's the one.

The part about "I want to get married soon" would give me pause... don't over-think things here, or rush into anything. You didn't give any details, like how long you have known him, but I would say just chill out for the time being. It sounds like a crush to me... nothing more.

I would say, like PopClick, don't rush. I also made a list when I was much younger and met this one young man in college who was everything on the list. However, I was not attracted to him. What it taught me was that, just because someone has all the qualities you desire, does not mean they are the one for you. Give yourself at least a year, for some of the excitement to wear off, before thinking about getting very serious. A lot can happen with a year, which can change or reinforce your feelings.

yikes your only 18 baby doll still young just wait a while longer. im 27 & still not ready. whatever God has for you he will give to you, he's an amazing God. He'll give you the man you need

Wait on God don't rush. You have a long life ahead of you. It is O.K. to hang out as friends...
with other people. That way you are both accountable for what you say and do.
You will have other people hear what he is telling you, and you can reflect with them...
if he is honorable or just playing with your heart. You sound like you are already swept off your feet.
When people get this way...they often only hear what they want to hear.
Young love can be blind. I will be praying for you to have clarity.
Take care and God bless you and keep you! Shekaniah

Thanks all, but I feel this one helped me the most: SOmeone told me to wait a year, and now im hearing it again, so it must be God telling me something: Im not going to rush into anything, im just going to pray, and enjoy everyday and see what God has:

Does he even know that you like him?

My experience, I was 20, my ex wife and I fell in love at first sight, during that year we pretended to be something we weren't just so the other would love the other. After one year of knowning each other we got married, another year later we got divorced. I don't think there is a problem with dating, you should do that for a long time, i give the suggestion of at least 2 years to get to know the person, in 2 years a lot can happen and both of you can be place in difficult situations and it is in those moments when you will see the true colors come out of a person, people can only wear a mask for so long before they get tired and start being themselves. I will pray for the Lord to guide you, God bless.

Praying in Jesus that all His will shall be poured out upon you with understanding.

God bless
pickles

Agree i was engaged to my ex he only dated for 9 months until he turned abusive! i tell these young girls dont get me wrong the guy they want to marry may not be abusive at all just to wait until God brings them the man they need

Sorry, but would you still think he's the one for u if you have vampire dreams about you both sharing your love and kissing and biting each other's neck??..lol

that would be another dream more like a twilight dream lol

I need to say that I now thank God for unanswered prayers. My first love was an unanswered prayer in that at your age all I desired was to be his wife and defrost his fridge.

I know his "ex" wife now & know how his life went & then kind of man & husband he turned out to be.

YIKES!!! Thank you Lord for my husband who I kept running into over 2 month period, everywhere I'd go he'd be (no he wasnt stalking me lol we had no one in common, we ran into each other in 5 different suburbs of vancouver so many times within that 2 months. that was ... 22 years ago.

I still maintain that I wish I would have focused on having fun with my friends back then instead of worrying about who I would marry and the hours spent waiting for the other boyfriends to call I wish i would have spent going out with my friends like they suggested.

NO one wants to be lonely or alone. Just enjoy your time being you and getting to know who you are in Christ & nothing will stop those who the Lord brings together If this guy is from the Lord, there is nothing that will stop it and you will never be left wondering if he cares or questioning any part of your relationship.

Bless your heart I've prayed but I've prayed a different sort of prayer for you. I've prayed that the Lord would reveal to you who you are in Christ How precious you are in Christ and how great is His love of you. You in particular, have a very special place in the heart of the Lord. You are accepted you are redeemed. You are will continue to be blessed

@taiphaniNichole, bless your heart & thank the Lord that you didnt stay. So many have such low self esteem (usually the doing of the bf) that when it gets physically abusive they believe the lies they've been told and stay. I praise the Lord that you are a strong individual and now this is part of your testimony to mentor others as led by the Holy Spirit.

Good Shepard, I pray you lead DreamGirl in the green pastures you have for her, directing her to the streams of living water that will refresh her soul. Thank you for gaurding her against the lure of the world, the pleasures of sin and pain of deception. May her dreams be in line with Your will and no one elses. Amen.

Sister, you have received some good counsel and prayers from others here. Time is one of the best indicators for true love. Also, with the Godly counsel of many, there is safety. Based on God's word of course.
May the Lord fulfill the desires of your heart according to His will for you. Amen. Psalm 37:4