oh poor simoro, we are women sweetie. It is a part of our nature I think. I struggle with this also. I guess the way I think about it is I wouldn't be jealous if he isn't given me reason to be jealous. Women are more adept at reading body language and we have that intuition. What I do is when it starts to take over I pray. I lay it at the feet of Jesus and then I plead with Him about how it makes me feel and how I can't deal with it and don't want to and he helps me every single time. Just pray on it when you feel it creeping up on you. I do not think this is something we can overcome by ourselves honestly. Its to BIG.