just when i thought i knew why all this happened

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Dec 31, 2012
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after my husband left 4 months ago because of a mid life crisis i finally met a man who was so loving and caring for me we dated for 3 months and i thought this was why god had planed this all for me as he also is a beliver in god he even gave me 2 crosses he wears he called me every day even from work i was so not use to that then he just stopped calling me yesterday and today for no aparent reason and wont answer my 2 calls to him? I keep going through my head to see if i did something wrong but can not find anything. not sure what the problem was and i guess i will never know/ i dont think i will be able to trust another man again. 28 years with one and tried to move on felt so much love then now this.....why am i being forsaken. please pray i will feel loved again.
 
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Missachu

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Lord,

I ask you to bless shotrydoe, Lord. Give her peace of mind and both eyes up towards you God. Because even though no one knows the heart or intentions of this new man, you most certainly do. Please Lord, just give her the comfort that her heart needs so that she can continue living a happy and healthy life Lord. We ask for your healing of the heart, mind, spirit and soul Lord Jesus. We love you and all your children, Jesus. And in your name, I pray...Amen.
 
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Mammachickadee

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after my husband left 4 months ago because of a mid life crisis i finally met a man who was so loving and caring for me we dated for 3 months and i thought this was why god had planed this all for me as he also is a beliver in god he even gave me 2 crosses he wears he called me every day even from work i was so not use to that then he just stopped calling me yesterday and today for no aparent reason and wont answer my 2 calls to him? I keep going through my head to see if i did something wrong but can not find anything. not sure what the problem was and i guess i will never know/ i dont think i will be able to trust another man again. 28 years with one and tried to move on felt so much love then now this.....why am i being forsaken. please pray i will feel loved again.
Did your husband simply leave, or are you officially divorced? This could be the very reason God seems to have taken this man out of your life. There are several other possible reasons. Is the man married? Does he have a record that caught up with him? Was he convicted about the relationship and decided to cut things off cold turkey? Does God intent for your husband to come back and this is His way of not letting you be cheated out of the chance for a God-centered marriage reborn? You are loved with an everlasting love, and underneath are the everlasting arms.
One thing I might recommend of you do pursue a relationship with this man is to find out what his faults are. When I meet people I don't want to get the snow/salesman job. I want to hear what they know is wrong and to see how they are seeing God use it. If you go into a relationship thinking a man is perfect you will be more nervous and sometimes devastated when the honeymoon is over. God's timing is perfect.
 
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belovedsophia

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Shortydoe,I pray that God strenghtens and comfort you. May He heal your heart and above all,may His perfect will be done in your life in Jesus name.
Amen
 

pickles

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Huge hugs shortydoe, praying for you in Jesus, for all understanding and peace.

God bless
pickles
 
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Duckies

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Keeping you in prayers friend. God Bless!! :)
 
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thank youall my friends, still nothing has changed, but i will be ok, im strong and have god on my side, he seems a little on the shy side right now but i know he knows the plan.
 
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bluebirdchaser

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Praying for you.