life is a mess because of me

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kim12345

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I wasn't born into the cream of the crop

In a new bible study

all the couples are doing things together but not with us but They are Major Prayer warriors for me...
but don't really want any friendship with us, maybe because all husbands are pray warriors and my husband Never Prays!
Never tells anyone if he made a commitment to God or not.
Should I get divorce?

life is hard

1. no friends
2. my 2 sons are no longer friends on facebook
3. I may have cancer and a shameful virus that causes it
4. no one to talk to
5. all the men pray in my BS but NOT my husband
6. I have the same refrigerator for 25 yrs family members makes jokes about it
7. don't know if husband is trustworthy or faithful?
8. no education
9. women do Not want to be friends with me
I can stand on my own . I hope
 
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Ugly

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If these people won't be your friend because your husband doesn't pray, the real problem are with these religious snobs you're associating with.
But that's only assuming that's the reason. You really have no reason to base this concept on. Perhaps rather than guessing and making assumptions you could pull one of the wives aside and ask. That way you know the real reason.

I don't see any basis for divorce. Life is hard for many people, but you seem to be focused on these negatives. Try being more active in solving these issues rather than wallowing in the bad. If people aren't friends or talking to you do you ever ask why? Try to solve it and find a solution.
 
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jkalyna

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I would divorce that church as fast as you could. Jesus taught the disciples to wash one another's feet, if they are leaving your husband out rejecting him, it might not be to far he will leave you and the church, that if this is how christians are , he will look for love in the world. I would not go there period. It sounds very religious, and not loving. Putting condemnation on him is not from our loving father. WE are to embrace one another, he sounds very humble, and I would not go there period. The problems you are having, is because it is steming from the head, of the women, which is him. He has no confidance, sounds like your depressed, because he might be from the mess at that church. Healing comes when two or you agree, if your husband is constantly put down, his image with the father is like nothing, how is he to have faith, there is damage being done to your marriage, your thinking of divorce because of a religion that isn't teaching love, it already started the poison. Lord get them out of religion, if they don't go to church, unchurch them and let them love each other, deeply and have church at home, prayer build their confidance, and self worth, together, bible study, and lead them to a loving church. I pray for her husband that the Love of God would be felt in him send your holy spirit lord to speak to him, we don't ask him to live to others expectations but to obey you Lord, save this marriage, and destroy the root of religion, let it be cursed at the seed in Jesus name.
 
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ContentCanadian

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Talk to God and look to Him for clarity and peace. Read your Bible, God will bring you the verses you need to see. How do you know that the people in church do not want to be friends with you? What evidence do you have of that? You think that the couples don't want to be friends with you, you then state that women do not want to be friends with you, then you state you have no friends..it makes me wonder if your observations have to do with a skewed perception.

It would be nice if your husband would pray and would be nice if he would profess Jesus as His saviour but that is really between him and God. As his wife have you asked him at home personally?

If you divorce the only thing that will change on your list of negative things is that you will be able to add to the list - divorcee, failed marriage.

Don't let Satan bring you down. Sometimes when you are moving in the right direction he hits you with lies to tries and get you off course.

Cling to God, cling to God, cling to God. Pray to God and ask him if the church you are at is the church he wants you to be at right now. He will move you where he wants you.

But on another note, how is the Bible study going? What do you think of the Word?
 
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ContentCanadian

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p.s you cannot stand on your own. Stand on God. He will strenghten you, surely He will help you, He will uphold you with his righteous right hand.
 
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