Lonely and Depressed....

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The_boy

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Have taught myself since I was sixteen to do the necessary.... but if it's not IMMEDIATELY necessary I simply don't care enough to do anything. As for any reason why I'm lonely and depressed... weeeellll, I have no friends where I'm at, or family, and I can't seem to ask a girl out without being looked at like I've got three heads and she's not sure which one to say no to.
 
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Emyy

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without friends you will obviously feel lonely...try to make some good friends bt be sure there's no good friend like Jesus.
 

pickles

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Praying that Jesus Christ Our Lord will bring all healing and friendships to you.

Hugs and God bless.
pickles
 

JaumeJ

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Jul 2, 2011
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You already have the best friend ever, Jesus Christ. Put this burden on Him, and He will see you through. Meanwhile I ask our Father, with all who agree, that you be completely comforted and exhilerated in Jesus Christ, in Jesus Christ's precious name, amen.

May you always sense the Love and never the solitude. In the Love that is Jesus Christ...
 
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Well get at me then if you need someone to talk to. I don't know what to say about women. Most don't seem to look at what's inside or even care about personality.
 
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skymetal777

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Praying that the Lord Christ Almighty will comfort you and guide you when in trouble.

To be a friend of God is all I desire, all I want is you!
 

damombomb

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Feb 27, 2011
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Have you tried going to a good spiritfilled church?There is nothing better than your brothers and sisters in the lord.
Once you know who you are in god or your purpose in life you are way happier.
Lord bless my brother and show him who he is in you,in JESUS name amen.
 
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The_boy

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I can't find one in this little town I'm in and I KNOW it would help. I have no transportation and no one from the Church I attended before has the means to come get me nor do I have money to give for gas (I've already looked in every avenue I can imagine).
 
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greenzone

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Don't worry man, everyone have their rough time sometimes..
Just keep'n pray n
My advice is to give smile to everyone u meet, girls love smiling guy..
haha
 

Adrianv125

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Jan 17, 2011
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What you are looking for is to fill your loneliness with anyone really, doesn't matter if they are "friends" or "girlfriend". But the reality of it is that you are never alone. God sees every thing you say,think, feel and do. At the end of your life you will face Him and not your "friends" or "girlfriend", and He's loved you more than a friend or a girlfriend or your family ever could. Worship Him alone because He alone loves you with an eternal love.
 
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MRSDS

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Hi , May the Lord surround you with caring and loving people. Remember, the Lord has made you gorgeous .
He is the maker of wonders. Believe in yourself and allow the Holy Spirit to do the rest. Blessings:)
 
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drinkbrandi

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Praying that God takes away your depression and loneliness and brings you amazing friends that will help you in your faith and not only give you companionship but will also encourage your relationship with God.
 
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FatnWeak

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I'm in the same hole but something I have done that really helps is that I found myself a church with awesome people, they know who I am, I live away from home because of work and it's not my time to look for a woman so I'm waiting it out though I wish I could start looking for the one but it'd be wise for me to wait, but anyways the people at my church know that I am a bachelor, I never feel lonely because someone from my church is always inviting me over for dinner, or watch a movie, to chat, etc. I highly encourage you to find yourself a church with people that have the love of Christ in their hearts and they'll take you in with much love and will be happy to do it. I am blessed to have had found a church like such.
 
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nan

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Very sorry loneliness has you down. Does the town your in have churches? Regardless of denomination, as long as its a Christian church, go for it!!
In most congregations they have some type of 'reach out' ministry / program. Can you contact those churches? I bet at least one person in each congregation is available to give ya a ride.
I also bet when you make those calls, your going to learn that God has already placed you, on their hearts. He's pretty awesome, that way!!!
Make the call and begin fellowshipping!! =o)
 
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PEACE2U

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I pray that you realize that your not alone, for Gods creations surround you continuuiosly, sometimes you just have to reach out to soemone, anyone. Go to a church, get in the word of God. I have been in similar situations like yurs. Don't beat yourself up. Renew yourself and your mind. Things aren't as bad as they seem. Be patience, God is leading you into a direction, everything will be alright.
 
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Risen

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Dear Lord, I pray that you help The_boy to fall in love with you for he will realise that we do not spend enough time with you. Help him fall in love with your words for you will surely come soon to take those that are in love with you and your words. Let the power of your words be his companion for he will certainly find empowerment to live life to the full. Dear Lord please send along a companion that can share your love with him and make him feel special in Jesus name I pray Amen