Losing the will

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OktoburJuliet

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I'm new here and I feel like I'm falling apart. I have no one for support and I am so desperate for help. I'm at my breaking point. I'm ready to give up. My will to live is slowly fading. I'm 24 with three children my marriage has fallen apart my ex threw me and our children out to move in his home wrecking girlfriend and her children in. I am so depressed and I just don't know what to do anymore.
 

damombomb

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Feb 27, 2011
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Hi sister, hold on to the Lord, put your eyes on him, abide under his wings, rest in him. He will fight your battles for you.
 
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psychomom

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I'm new here and I feel like I'm falling apart. I have no one for support and I am so desperate for help. I'm at my breaking point. I'm ready to give up. My will to live is slowly fading. I'm 24 with three children my marriage has fallen apart my ex threw me and our children out to move in his home wrecking girlfriend and her children in. I am so depressed and I just don't know what to do anymore.
Juliet, (may i call you Juliet? :) ), of course you're distressed and frightened! :(

but you're gonna hang in there for the sake of those three wonderful kids, right?
that's what moms do, and i just know you will.

i heard one pastor say, God's office is at the end of our ropes.
i think of it this way:
Deut. 33:27
The eternal God is your dwelling place, and underneath are the everlasting arms.

You are perfectly safe letting go of all the feelings and worry.
You won't free fall, honey. God is there. He is right there with you.
and because He has shared His love with us all, we are also right here for you. ♥

Father of mercies, i'm here at Your Throne of Grace with Juliet and her little ones.
she's tired and probably angry and scared, Abba.
thank You for Your promise to send a Comforter to her.
chase away worry, Sir, and just love her,
for Jesus' sake, amen.

please, please, Juliet, allow us to, in some small measure, carry the burden with you...for you?
vent, tell us anything you wish...we want to help in whatever way we can.
you are not alone. never, ever alone. ♥

love,
ellie

 

jogoldie

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Mar 20, 2014
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OK.....this is so wrong.......my dear little sister.......I'm sorry this has happened.....There are many of us here who are single moms.....I for one know that you will be alright...Let God take care of this for you.....and if you need to talk or you have questions...you can pm me any time...God will wrap you up in His loving arms and carry you through.....you will land on your feet...He will give youand safe home for you and your children......then step back and watch what God will do.....this will not go unpunished...You will come through this a champion....God don't like anyone messing with His kids....you are safe here to fellowship with us and be here to help you through this.....I'm praying for you my dear one.....you deserve so much more....May peace and joy find you soon......peace and love.....jo
 

SweetShelly35

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Feb 21, 2012
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Hello Dear,

As a Mama you must stay strong for those little ones. That is much easier said than done I know. You are first stages of a separation and it feels like the pain will never end. I promise you this dear...it will. As the old saying goes, Time Heals All Wounds. You will have your ups and downs over the next little while but I promise you that it will not hurt like this forever. God will not allow it! Remember that it is ok to be sad, and please don't beat yourself up for it. Hold those babies extra tight and give them lots of love, you need those little hugs too. Talk to God, He is right there for you. He doesn't mind if you cry or ramble, get angry, or sob into your pillow when you talk to Him. He is your father and he loves you more than you will know in this life time lovely.
Love and Prayers,
Shelly
 
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gustavopgianello

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I'm new here and I feel like I'm falling apart. I have no one for support and I am so desperate for help. I'm at my breaking point. I'm ready to give up. My will to live is slowly fading. I'm 24 with three children my marriage has fallen apart my ex threw me and our children out to move in his home wrecking girlfriend and her children in. I am so depressed and I just don't know what to do anymore.
Words wont help. Actions do. I will pray for you, as will many others. Mean time:
1. Contact an evangelical or catholic crisis pregnancy centre. They have facilities.
2. Contact a local church for help. Talk to a pastor or the head of the deacons board.
3. He CANT just throw you out. Phone the police, tell them your situation, and if anything criminal occurred lay charges.
4. Don't lose hope. Contact HIS family, especially HIS mother and father, and beg for help in the name of the grand children.
5. If you have committed Christian friends, contact them for help, esp. temporary shelter.
6. Contact a crisis resolution expert so that a trained professional can talk to him and intermediate.
7. Contact a lawyer, and have him charged with abuse--if any has occurred. NAIL him for child support and alimony. Most states are very pro-active in this regard.
8. Report her and her children to Child Welfare Services. In other words, legally and morally, make his life a living hell. Punish him. The bible teaches mercy for victims, not mercy for criminals. If adultery has been committed, then in a godly society, you could demand that he and she be put to death, and you would receive all the assets.

Do not fold, do not give up, that is exactly what Satan his father wants. Fight for the real victims...your children. Cry, scream, throw a few things around but...get over it and take action and then God will strengthen you. As you take action, watch the hand of God take over, and make provision for you.

2 looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him ENDURED the cross, DESPISING the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
3 For consider Him who ENDURED such hostility from sinners against Himself, lest you become weary and discouraged in your souls.
4 You have not yet resisted to bloodshed, striving against sin. (Heb 12:2-4 NKJ)
 

levi85

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Jul 2, 2013
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Lord Jesus, please help oktoburjuliet, and let you be the God in oktoburjuliet's life, Amen
 
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butterfly712

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Yes Lord Jesus please help oktoburjuliet,and let you be the god in her life,show her the way to go,for her and her children,in Lord,Jesus name,Amen.
 
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kittycat7

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Lord, giver her the strength and the fight to live innjesus name,
 
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DyingToSelf

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Heavenly Father,

I pray for Juliet and her family. Grant her strength and wisdom to overcome these temporary obstacles in her marriage. Open her husband's heart ,LORD, that he may see the work that he has done and open in him a river of repentance that will cause him to change his mind. Remind him of his husbandly duties and Your commandment that the husband is to love his wife like Christ loves the church.

Father, we confess our weakness to You, LORD. And we know that we, in and of ourselves, cannot achieve this. But only You CAN, LORD. We depend on Your grace and mercy in this situation and remind ourselves that You are Yahweh- the LORD who stooped down to cut a covenant with lowly man.

LORD, lay Your restoring hand on this marriage, and truly what You have restored will be better and stronger than before it was first broken. Teach us Faith, LORD, that we may declare in our mouths the Victory that Jesus has won for us! Remind us that the battle has already been won by the Finished Work of Christ.

I pray all these in jesus Name,
Amen.