Making the right decision

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catmurky

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wow. GUYS, God never fails to surprise me hahaha (in a good way). I think our prayers have been heard, I know what to do now :) He asked me if I'd go out with him if he were to ask me out in my country and I said yes. So yeah, I guess it's pretty obvious now lol

I have to say, every prayer request that I have posted on here have turned out well in the end! Thank God.
 
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Stewart

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WOW!!That's good news..so that means you are both a potential item now??
 
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catmurky

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Stewart said:
WOW!!That's good news..so that means you are both a potential item now??
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Hm... I don't know. I doubt that lol I'm just glad that I finally know where I'm at and what he thinks about me, more or less. Unless he left out some details, which is very probable
 
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Stewart

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catmurky said:
Hm... I don't know. I doubt that lol I'm just glad that I finally know where I'm at and what he thinks about me, more or less. Unless he left out some details, which is very probable


ok I understand.I got the impression that he was asking you in a hyperphetical way that if he asked you out in your own country
would you go out with him.The term 'asking someone out can mean either just to ask a person on a date....or if can also mean to ask someone to be their boyfriend/girlfriend'....what's what I thought he ment as as you replied 'YES!'.. I was thinking then that as you said yes to him then he would realise that you have feelings for him.

Yet your response would be enough to let him know you definitely are interested in him...
So what happens now then!!
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catmurky

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Stewart said:
catmurky said:
Hm... I don't know. I doubt that lol I'm just glad that I finally know where I'm at and what he thinks about me, more or less. Unless he left out some details, which is very probable


ok I understand.I got the impression that he was asking you in a hyperphetical way that if he asked you out in your own country
would you go out with him.The term 'asking someone out can mean either just to ask a person on a date....or if can also mean to ask someone to be their boyfriend/girlfriend'....what's what I thought he ment as as you replied 'YES!'.. I was thinking then that as you said yes to him then he would realise that you have feelings for him.

Yet your response would be enough to let him know you definitely are interested in him...
So what happens now then!!
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Yeah, I straight up told him that I like him and it would be interesting to see if we are actually compatible. Then I asked him the same question in return and he also said yes. And yes, that question only implied dating as in "going on a date" :)
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Stewart

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Awwwww.i think that's so sweet.Its such a lovely thing when two peple admit they like each other.You must be feeling glad that things are now out in the open..I am happy for you both.
If he doesn't initiate anything then I might need to ask him what does he want to do??Does he want to have a relationship with you..as he may/man not know quiet what to do this recent development.Naturally pray about it..and let God lead you both.
 
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Stewart

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Oops..lol.. I spelt the wrong word ment to say that if he doesn't initiate anything then you might need to ask him...
 
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Zachary24

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I can somewhat relate to your situation and understand the difficulties that come along with it. In my situation, I was open and told that person how I felt and unfortunately, that feeling wasn't reciprocated. We remain friends to this day and it is quite difficult, but remind yourself that God puts us through these trials to strengthen us and our faith for what will come later. Ultimately, we are all following a plan greater than our understanding and in the end, these situations have their purpose. Whether or not we get the things we want, we will be better and stronger for the experience. Praying for you. God Bless you.
 
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