Me and Her need your prayers

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Oct 18, 2011
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Lately I've been constantly posting here about my love life, and about my problems in my life with this girl that I love, whom I believe God said will be my wife. It's a little over a year now since we're together, or been talking. We aren't going out, but we always have issues. I don't want to blame just her, but most of the issue revolves around a lot of misunderstanding, and it goes on her part. Because she refuse to talk, she refuse to communicate, she refuse to understand what I was trying to say. And it goes on me, because I always feel the need to be re insured that she loves me, that she cares for me, and that she was thinking of me. So I ask her simple questions like, "Why did you do that?" Or "Why did you lie to me?" Everytime I ask these kind of questions, either it's about our relationship or about our feelings, she flips, overly anger, and start getting so angry, she leaves me. And for weeks, I don't see her, until she's ready to see me. Just yesterday, she did this again, and now, she said to me, "Good bye." I'm not sure if she really meant it or not. But all I know is, I really need you guys prayer, not just for me, but for her. For us, because if she truly is the one, I really can't see how our relationship will ever work if she refuse to talk with me or solve any kind of issues we have together as a team. She refuse it. She rather ignores it, and act like nothing happened. I need you guys and girls prayers more than anything. I am distressed a lot because of this, because of her. I even quit a lot of things in my life, such as jobs, school is failing, and I'm in a distress mode every time she does this to me. Sure enough, her response to me is, "Blame yourself." She's right, it is my fault that I let her get me down this far. But I am holding unto the promise God has for me about her. If she truly is the one, I've been fighting for her, like what God has told me to do. "Fight for her." If there's any word of advice, I'll take it.