My fiance mother

I realize a few things lately, but since 2009 when my fiance dad died, his mother his on the phone every single day, we haven't had a break, especially my fiance, has he talks to her everyday. The trouble is she says she's lonely, but we have tried to make her join a club near her to meet other older people, but she will not do it.
My fiance recently had a stroke, and on some days he doesn't feel like talking to his mother, but she still insists. it so selfish. I can't say anything to much, but today my fiance admitted I was right about his mother, she gets into big debates sometimes over the phone, it just so she has someone to talk to that's all. I think she is rather selfish, and wish she would understand. I tried to say today that he doesn't know what to say sometimes, and she said loads of people phone every day. I just wish it was different, I feel very strongly, and Im anxious about it.

Rod complains so much about it, but he won't tell her, and that is the problem. I'm finding it hard enough dealing with my fiance behaviour at times, as he can be quite angry at times with his personality and the stroke. Please pray for this and would like someone's opinion on it. thanks his mother is really obsessed with ringing us, I just wish she had a friend, but she lives her life through us. it's awful.

Father God, we pray please bless, in Jesus name, Amen!

My advice is try to get her computer literate (if she's not) and sign her up to a good chat site (like CC) there she could talk to people all day and give you guys a break! It will keep her occupied and she will feel like she's talking to someone.... or get her a pet? just my suggestions

Thanks for your advice, it's a no win situation, because she is a very strange woman, she won't have pets, we suggested a bird or a dog, but no, she's to inclined to be very negative. Also it's like she can be very opinion natured, and is very old fashioned, it's also a no no to a computer.

Lord, I lift up this situation to you in prayer & ask that you would bring peace. Lord, there is no situation too difficult for you to handle & no problem to small either. I pray Lord that you would give this mother who calls too often a way to find activities, and fulfilling things to do throughout her day. Maybe she can be involved with possibly a senior center or senior outings. I thought the computer idea was a great idea, as this could be a very fulfilling way for her to feel connected, besides calling on the phone too often. I pray that the Lord will bring the answer to this..In Jesus name...

Thanks so much, everyday the same subject about the weather, it drives my fiance crazy, she won't go to a club we have tried, si mentioned yesterday that no many men ring everyday for 7 years, and she lied and said her other son does, which he doesn't. and she said alot of people ring everyday. I tried my best to hint, but 7 years without a break is alot. she just is in our lives to much. it's that bad my fiance wants to get rid of the house phone and just have a mobile. I feel pressure at times, especially when my fiance is in a bad mood about hia mam, and he takes it out on me sometimes. please pray