This is why I refrain from debates, as much as possible. Just my opinion, but does anybody ever win amongst debates? Debates to me, is another word for arguments. I figure that I must simply explain my view, in some cases explain it in more depth, and let the other opinions take it or leave it. Counteracting others opinions seem to be an endless and dangerous game. Just my experience with this matter, but I don't remember many folks coming away fulfilled and at peace after heavy debating. It's so easy to go too far, and eventually one or the other, are trying to forcefully cram opinions down each other's throat.
I'll pray for you my friend and all the folks of this forum. It's good you brought this to prayer.
God bless you my friend, and may you help be a keeper of peace.