My life is falling apart

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abelsdaddy9115

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On September 20, 2015, I was charged with burglary on my own home 2 weeks after my wife gave birth to our first born a little boy. November 9, 2015, I pled guilty to trespassing in a habitation again in my own home. I was sentenced to probation on December 14, 2015. Fast forward to May 22, 2016, my mother in law and her boyfriend was living with my wife son and our unborn child. That morning though, will forever scar me. My mother in law passed away from a massive heart attack. Another month later, on June 15, 2016, my wife who was 18 weeks pregnant starts to feel something weird and we rush her to the hospital come to find out the baby is coming wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too early. June 16, 2016, she gives birth to a beautiful. Baby girl Annalissa Lynn. Anyways, Annalissa wasn't supposed to be alive long as she only lived 16 minutes before breathing her last breath. Now that's when my marriage really began to go down hill quickly. My wife started to drink to deal with the post partum depression and losing her mom. I was stuck staying inside at night with our other child Abel. Which is no problem at all I love my son with my whole heart. But on July 26, 2016 my father was called home. I thought things were starting to get back on track with my wife but July 29, 2016 came and it will forever change my life. She said "I want out" I'm not going to lie and say I didn't flip out when I did. But she called the police on me stating I threatened to slit her throat which I would never do. Anyways while incarcerated for 30 days I got word that she was cheating on me already. I got out things began going good again. I got to see my kid for his birthday and even got to keep him over night 3 total nights in October. But now she won't return my calls texts or anything. That's my prayer request that God softens her heart to at least let me see my son.
 

levi85

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Lord please hear and bless abelsdaddy9115, yes Lord bless , in Jesus righteous name, Amen!
 

tourist

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I will certainly say a prayer for God to soften her heart towards you and your son. I have also prayed for God to be with you in your time of need. The next breath that your daughter Annalissa Lynn takes will be in heaven in the presence of God. Glad to have you as a member of our family. Hopefully, this site will become a place of comfort and rest for you. Glad to have you as a member of our family. Welcome to CC.
 

abelsdaddy9115

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To be honest and I know it's gonna start alot of controversy but I miss my wife is this normal
 

KBond

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Hello, abelsdaddy9115. Yes, it is normal to miss your wife. All of this tragedy must have been difficult for you.

Lord, I pray these relationships would be mended and healing rain would saturate them. As he patiently awaits Your careful work according to Your perfect will for his life, I pray he would have peace in his spirit and that Abel finds refuge in the wings of the Lord. Thank You, Jesus, for the beauty of this little boy. In Christ's Name, Amen.
 

mar09

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AD,
Just to let you know others know about ur prayer request, but most of all God does. May He be merciful and soften hearts, all others who need this. In Jesus' name.
Ah, and here's a welcome to CC also.
 
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That's a sad story,...dear Jesus help this family, 'cause they need you. There are more of us praying, the Lord, you are among us, hear us out. Thank you.
 
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iveseenworse

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i pray God sees your need and is generous with you.
 

littlestarsmum

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I’m so sorry to hear about your situation. My heart ached as I read your post. Words seem inadequate to convey my care and concern for you. I just said a prayer for you and your wife, and I hope that God will provide the comfort and help you need at this time. Have you ever considered talking with a counselor? It might be worth trying. I know your situation is not easy right now. Stay strong, friend. Sending prayers and wishing you well.
 
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PrincessLOVE23

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I am so sorry for what had happen to you. I will lraye that your wife will soften her heart and let you see your sons. Will also pray that she will be able to know her mistakes and faults on ur relationship and you will be somewhat relieved from all this coz we do know you dont deserve any of these.. We should always stick with the people we choose to live with be it through thick and thin, through the good and the bad, be it if he is at his best or worst. God Bless you and Be strong, God has a plan for you, Never stop praying and believe in God. He will never leave your side and he will put favor in you .. I pray these in the Name of Jesus Christ and the Father and the Holy spirit.
 
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kittycat7

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Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.
—Romans 12:16
 
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Starsdance

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God, I pray for this brother, please save him and his family by your perfect justice and benevolence,Amen.
 

IDEAtor

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Update: God's hearing my prayer and she misses me

3 things:
Praise God that she is listening.
Praise God that you are giving Him credit.
Do not force any healing, but welcome it.

Lord, please help AD to recover, like Job did.
Help him to repent wherever (if) needed.
And help him to not be wise in his own eyes about the whole matter.
Rather, keep instructing Him as he does better when following You.
As for his wife, help her to forgive and be prudent.
Mend as needed, in Jesus' name, amen.
Your Will Be Done.