My relationship request

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lovewins

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It aches my heart to know that I'm in this situation, but here I go. For Two years, I have woken up every single day with a beautiful beaming smile on my face knowing that the one I love has filled and completed my heart. Two years ago I was in a very dark place in my life and God sent one of the most beautiful souls I have ever known, know and will ever know into my life to become my boyfriend, my fiance, my absolute everything. We are best friends, we share everything together and truly love one another. Not once have we ever stepped outside of our relationship to seek satisfaction. We have pure and honest love for each other. Lately, I have become very argumentative and without realizing it I was just too much on edge. I wasn't giving him his space and now it is what he has requested. We are still together, but he wants to miss me. He wants us to come to a place of peace because our fights have him headaches and he was becoming overwhelmed. I just wish I would have realized before when enough is enough. When to be quiet. One thing we don't do is give up. When you are a couple in love, you work out your differences because love is one of the most beautiful gifts to be placed in your life. I know this love is real but I'm in a place right now where I'm feeling not simply overwhelmed with emotions but just completely saddened and heart broken because I just wish I could go back in time and erase every stupid comment and realize that guys have emotions as well.

The power of prayer works so much better in groups. I am truly praying on this relationship and I really need the power of prayer to heal my situation. Right now I am doing what is my best for my partner by giving him the space he needs to clear his head, but I do not want this to linger on. He believes everything is fine and has assured me multiple times he loves me but just knowing that I've caused him to want to be alone in his own thoughts right now, disturbs me. Throughout our relationship he has never once given up, and even though he hasn't given up just yet I need prayer right now so that his heart is filled with love for us.

My name is Jazmyn Edmonds and his name is Angel Ayala. We have been together since July 26th, 2011 and we both have proclaimed and professed to each other not only do we want marriage and children we want to spend the rest of our lives together. Please restore his faith in our love.

This is the prayer I have been doing every morning with my own twist but sometimes I feel as though I'm doing it wrong

If you could please pray on our relationship, on his behalf and well our behalf, and fill his heart with love for me. Thank You so much.


Prayer for Jazmyn Edmonds and Angel Ayala's relationship
[h=3]Prayer to Heal a Relationship[/h]"Almighty God, hear this prayer."
Dear Lord, I offer you this prayer, to help me with my current relationship situation. Please take away all the pain and hurt in my heart. Fill it with love, joy, patience, and understanding.
Bless me and my partner, so that we may never surrender to whatever challenges that come our way. Fill our hearts with love for each other, and may you make each one of us realize each other's worth. Please touch the heart of my partner,fill it with much love for me.
Make our complicated relationship become uncomplicated. I seek for your mercy and blessing that you may allow us to spend the rest of our lives with each other. Please make this feeling mutual for both of us. Lead us not into temptations. Guide us wherever we go. Always put us in each other's heart and mind. Thank you Lord for hearing my prayer.
I love you. Amen.
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Cherry4Christ

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One thing I must say is if it's not in God's Will no matter how much you pray it will not fix the situation. So one must ask God if it's Your Will please fix my relationship. Seek His Kingdom first and then everything else will fall into place. Take care and God bless.
 

Cherry4Christ

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As a woman you shouldn't be doing all the work on trying to restore the relationship. During this time you should focus on getting yourself together. If he wants you back he will come back to you on his own. You constantly asking him does he love you and stuff in that nature will only seem like you're pressuring him. Accept the time apart and don't revolve your time and energy around this situation. I know it's easier said than done but live your life and explore your interest. You're only 20. Girl go out and enjoy yourself. Lol. I am able to give you this only because I went through this myself not too long ago. Praise and obey God, live life, and do what's right. Things will work out for you.
 
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All guys need space and like to be alone in their thoughts some times. That isn't necessarily meaning theres a problem in the relationship. I think you should not be argumentative and submit to your husband as you do to the Lord like the Bible says. If he is not wise enough to be the head of the relationship he is not the right mate for you. But if he is you need to let him take the wheel and be the head of the woman as Christ is the head of the church. Being argumenataive is just rebellion. If you have a problem with something he is don't get loud or argumentative just respectfully and calmly bring the issue up to him when he's not busy. If he loves you he will take your wants and needs into account and want to make you happy too.