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Hi there,
I am so sorry to hear this, please know that you are not alone in this as many of us will be praying for you and God is always looking after his children.
I am also currently going through a broken marriage
i feel your pain and i can tell you that God keeps a broken heart from crumbling... it hurts, but never lose Hope!!
God Bless You and will be praying for you both. Please don't give up and both of you pray for God's Will in your lives.
I am so sorry to hear this, please know that you are not alone in this as many of us will be praying for you and God is always looking after his children.
I am also currently going through a broken marriage
i feel your pain and i can tell you that God keeps a broken heart from crumbling... it hurts, but never lose Hope!!God Bless You and will be praying for you both. Please don't give up and both of you pray for God's Will in your lives.
L
All is not lost, there is hope through Christ.
I respectfully submit my thoughts for your consideration and perusal:
Allot depends on how much you love the Lord. Does he love the Lord?
Hope remains as long as both are in the house. Next to consider is what is it that each of you truly want. If you are constantly in the apologetic frame of mind, then you will always be in the subordinate position. Each must find a mutual ground of communication and make a conscience intelligent decision about what each of you want.
Whose fault it is, is of no consequence at this stage of circumstances. Domestic conflict is a serious spiritual matter and it requires Spiritual submission by both parties. Without God and submission to His decisions, conflict will persist.
The key to healing this marriage is sincere prayer without blame. The Holy Spirit will penetrate the most callous heart of a human and any resistance to the power of influence is without effect.
Say nothing (“Silent Treatment”) and pray. When it becomes necessary to speak, say I love you. Saying I love have nothing to do with what answers the Lord is going to give you as your solution. Sometimes, we must accept an answer of leave as well as stay.
I say again, Prayer is the solution to your circumstances, in the meantime stay safe, and never compromise your physical safety.
You and Your Spouse Are In My Prayers.
Respectfully,
Living Epistle
Food For Thought: Your husband does have “A Side”. Find a way to understand what it is that he wants to express. You may need a mediator without your presence. Use someone in his family to mediate or one of mutual choice. Tell the person to communicate to him that you want to meet half way. Listen to every word that he expressed without judgment.
Give each other 24-72 hours to think it over, of course with prayer, and then you take authority over your life and make your decision within yourself as to what it is you want or will not accept. You count also; what you feel, and desire matters.
There is still hope for your marriage let the Lord show you how—Never compromise on mutual respect—Show love to the best of your ability to submit to the voice of the Holy Spirit that leads and guides us into all truth.
I respectfully submit my thoughts for your consideration and perusal:
Allot depends on how much you love the Lord. Does he love the Lord?
Hope remains as long as both are in the house. Next to consider is what is it that each of you truly want. If you are constantly in the apologetic frame of mind, then you will always be in the subordinate position. Each must find a mutual ground of communication and make a conscience intelligent decision about what each of you want.
Whose fault it is, is of no consequence at this stage of circumstances. Domestic conflict is a serious spiritual matter and it requires Spiritual submission by both parties. Without God and submission to His decisions, conflict will persist.
The key to healing this marriage is sincere prayer without blame. The Holy Spirit will penetrate the most callous heart of a human and any resistance to the power of influence is without effect.
Say nothing (“Silent Treatment”) and pray. When it becomes necessary to speak, say I love you. Saying I love have nothing to do with what answers the Lord is going to give you as your solution. Sometimes, we must accept an answer of leave as well as stay.
I say again, Prayer is the solution to your circumstances, in the meantime stay safe, and never compromise your physical safety.
You and Your Spouse Are In My Prayers.
Respectfully,
Living Epistle
Food For Thought: Your husband does have “A Side”. Find a way to understand what it is that he wants to express. You may need a mediator without your presence. Use someone in his family to mediate or one of mutual choice. Tell the person to communicate to him that you want to meet half way. Listen to every word that he expressed without judgment.
Give each other 24-72 hours to think it over, of course with prayer, and then you take authority over your life and make your decision within yourself as to what it is you want or will not accept. You count also; what you feel, and desire matters.
There is still hope for your marriage let the Lord show you how—Never compromise on mutual respect—Show love to the best of your ability to submit to the voice of the Holy Spirit that leads and guides us into all truth.