Exactly where I was at today. I will say a prayer for us both.
Lord Jesus please strengthen us in our time of struggle in our relationships. Help us to stay on course in following your will and remember to keep you first in our hearts, above all else. Guide us in the decisions we must make, that they be based upon your love and not our own fear, anger or pride. Instill in our hearts the understanding that YOU love us and will always be there throughout our life's journey. Please forgive our spouses for their transgressions against us and move their hearts to understand the hurt they have caused and may they too place their will and lives in your hands. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen.