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fola_jay

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Hi everyone,

My fiancee and I broke up a couple of months back and I'm still having a very hard time getting over her and moving on. She's this one person that meant the world to me and that I really love and cared about. I've never felt for anyone what I felt and still feel for her. I feel part of me is gone. Everything around me reminds me of her. A few hours ago I saw her wedding pictures on facebook and it was the most heartbreaking sight for me. I know I should be happy for her, but in truth I'm really bleeding inside. The images are haunting me already. I want to pray but words fail me, cos I just don't know what to say. I don't know how I'm going to make it through this season of despair, and I don't know how long it's going to last. I've heard often that pain causes people to change, but I don't want this to affect my career, my future relationships, my decisions and judgements, my character and personality. I need to get out of this and I'd appreciate all the prayers, advice, and encouragement anyone has to offer. Please help.

Thanks,
Jay
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Praying

you might want to stay away from her facebook profile though, no need to make it more difficult for yourself.
 
shemaiah

shemaiah

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I will pray for you. Moving on can be hard, infact its really hard to just leave the people you love. But through Christ you can move on in joy and peace. Go to God in prayer and ask Him to help you move on, and decide to move on. For when we are weak, He is strong. God bless
 
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SHINY707

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May the Holy Spirit comfort you and strengthen you.

May God heal your broken heart. Jesus is the true lover of our soul and He knows exactly what you feel,

He loves you.

Praying for you
 
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Lucy68

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Praying for your broken heart Jay. It must be very painful to see her wedding pictures.

I really hope this season of despair for you ends quickly. I suggest not looking at her pictures or trying to contact her for awhile. It will just keep the pain very much alive :( . This will give your heart time to heal.

Get involved with activities, people, church, etc. It will help redirect your mind and life.

Praying for you brother....may the Spirit lift you up and encourage you. Look to Him for your comfort :)
 
pickles

pickles

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Praying that Jesus will bring all comfort, streangth, peace, forgivness and all that is His healing love to you.
And in time, the perfect woman He planned for you. :)

God bless
pickles
 
pickles

pickles

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Almost forgot!
Welcome to CC!
:)

God bless
pickles
 
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fola_jay

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Thanks everyone, and thank you pickles. God bless you too
 
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CB55

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Peace be with you. Know that he is with you and feel his comfort. You are not alone. God please comfort your son Jay

Amen
 
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shekaniah

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Prayers sent in the Love of Jesus...
 
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