finally i got validation i found my husband at his so called friends house (woman) in her bed in his underwear her in the bathroom in her granny panties dont understand she is a drunk and so much older and heaver and frile than i am but anyways she must have something it cant be the sex thing as i am here for that. so not sure what it is i guess a mid life crisis i just dont understand he even told me 3 days ago i was his word and he could not ask for a better wife. so confussed please pray for me and my children 1 girl senior in high school 1 boy in collage i cant afford all of this on my own and i just want to find a man that wants to spend time with me and appreciate that i would love to cook for and just take care and cuddle with. please god take care of us and show us there is better people out there.