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Gail
God says what HE put together shall no one pull apart. Try going to counseling ,pastor counseling, or even both. Not to have the pride of life, but if GOD didn't want you two together HE would have told you not to marry him. Don't give your marriage up without knowing that it can be fix. My God-sister marry someone , too early in my opinion, but they are in the process of getting a divorce. I suggest that both of you talk to your pastor for counseling. Your pastor may can solve your issues with each other. For the abuse, your husband is just insecure about himself and his relationship with you. Try to understand each others' point of view. If he a unbeliever and he want to divorce, then you may let him go. But if he wants to stay with you then try to reconcile your marriage. But one spouse that is a believer will sanctify the other. Other then that you two shouldn't divorce unless death do you apart.
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I'm so sorry Amylia. I guess you certainly do understand what I'm going through. I sought help through my church and have found a surprising amount of support, starting there. I hope you are able to do the same. But... If you need someone to talk to I am willing to listen. Obviously I know what your dealing with. (I'm not sure how to do private messaging on this site but I think you can email me, and I will email back.) You have my prayers too. I will keep you in my morning and evening prayers. I hope you are comforted to know that Christian people are lifting you up. As hard as this is, I know that you can get through it. God bless you. Gail.
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My theme here has been hope. I have been wanting to hear that there is reason to hope. While I am moving in positive directions in my life, and focusing on good and wholesome things, I still want to have that tiny bit of hope that MAYBE he could be healed, and we could be a family. BUT... I am now in a discovery stage of this process. I am finding so many hidden things that he has been dishonest about. He has told me many lies. In fact, I am starting to think that he has never been truthful about anything. It's as if he has led a double life. My family (and his) are convinced that he has deep mental issues and would require a great amount of help, which he is not seeking. How can I still have any hope?