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OFM

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I lost a very close special spiritual sister in Christ on here.We would chat,e-mail,write letters talk on the phone.But last night she was very upset unhappy deeply hurt.She felt that i had 2 many bff's here in our cc faith community,i have just 3, 2 who i write and phone 1 i e/mail and write too.i do have special strong deep spiritual friendships with some christian friends here she felt i replaced her friendship i think and feel i do not know she won't talk with me.She thinks i do not care or love her as a christian friend i do not know how or why this is.all i can do is let go of the christian friendship,it was not romantic in any way i base my close friendships only ofn Our Lord Jesus Christ thats all,sometimes people may get upset on that i do not know.she is heart broken but i do not want to feel guilt on doing something i did not do.i guess all i can do is pray for her and love her still in Gods Agape love.has any 1 here lost a christian friendship on line or any place else like this?
 
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dliz

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OFM said:
I lost a very close special spiritual sister in Christ on here.We would chat,e-mail,write letters talk on the phone.But last night she was very upset unhappy deeply hurt.She felt that i had 2 many bff's here in our cc faith community,i have just 3, 2 who i write and phone 1 i e/mail and write too.i do have special strong deep spiritual friendships with some christian friends here she felt i replaced her friendship i think and feel i do not know she won't talk with me.She thinks i do not care or love her as a christian friend i do not know how or why this is.all i can do is let go of the christian friendship,it was not romantic in any way i base my close friendships only ofn Our Lord Jesus Christ thats all,sometimes people may get upset on that i do not know.she is heart broken but i do not want to feel guilt on doing something i did not do.i guess all i can do is pray for her and love her still in Gods Agape love.has any 1 here lost a christian friendship on line or any place else like this?
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Hmm.... I dont know it seems to me your friend has tender feelings for you. When you do something nice to girls they sometimes misinterpret that you like them when in fact you are doing it out of friendship. LOL! I don't know girls are like that sometimes!
 
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dliz

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OFM said:
I lost a very close special spiritual sister in Christ on here.We would chat,e-mail,write letters talk on the phone.But last night she was very upset unhappy deeply hurt.She felt that i had 2 many bff's here in our cc faith community,i have just 3, 2 who i write and phone 1 i e/mail and write too.i do have special strong deep spiritual friendships with some christian friends here she felt i replaced her friendship i think and feel i do not know she won't talk with me.She thinks i do not care or love her as a christian friend i do not know how or why this is.all i can do is let go of the christian friendship,it was not romantic in any way i base my close friendships only ofn Our Lord Jesus Christ thats all,sometimes people may get upset on that i do not know.she is heart broken but i do not want to feel guilt on doing something i did not do.i guess all i can do is pray for her and love her still in Gods Agape love.has any 1 here lost a christian friendship on line or any place else like this?
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Sorry about what happened between you and your friend OFM. I dont know but I've noticed that some people don't like it when their friends find another close friend. It's like they are threatened because they might lose you or something like that. I don't think it's right to get mad at your friend because she found another close friend.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Agree with what has been said above. Just reassure her that she is still a close friend of yours, then give her time.
 
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chu_huifen

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I know that you never replace somebody in your heart especiall your best friends, I can feel your kind heart to her and how you love and care of her. Just give her time to be alone to comfort herself. Everything will be okay OFM, let's pray together may God healed her broken heart and give her understanding. I'll pray for both of you :)
U should reassure her that she is still your bff, cheers :D
 
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MARKSOG

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Hi dear, talking about this problem means you really care. I do not think the options is breaking up with her. she has behaved this way either because.
she was not secured in your love or may be something she heard about you and cannot confront you.that's ok but make her understand that you value the relationship more than the problem at hand. still continue to love and pray for her.
 
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OFM

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chu_huifen said:
I know that you never replace somebody in your heart especiall your best friends, I can feel your kind heart to her and how you love and care of her. Just give her time to be alone to comfort herself. Everything will be okay OFM, let's pray together may God healed her broken heart and give her understanding. I'll pray for both of you :)
U should reassure her that she is still your bff, cheers :D
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She is willing to be friends of course i would or could not be mad at her and i would continue to love her thanx every 1.
 
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shirley

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I WILL PRAY FOR YOU OFM YOU DIDNT LOSE A FRIEND DONT BE BROKEN YOUR FRIEND CARES ABOUT YOU ALWAYS I FEEL IT IN MY HEART I LOST A VERY GOOD FRIEND TOO IM SAD I LOVED THAT FRIEND STILL DO ; FRIENDSHIP COULD MEAN MANY THINGS DONT CHANGE OK YOUR FRIEND PROBABLY LOVES YOU AS A SPIRITUAL FRIEND TOO ; IM PRAYING TOO THAT YOUR FRIENDSEES WHAT SHE DID WAS WRONG GIVE HER TIME TO COME AROUND OK ; IM VERY SURE SHE MISSES YOU BADLEY YOUR STILL FUNNY IN EVERYWAY CARING LOYAL GIVING ; SHE DONT KNOW WHAT SHES GOT TILL ITS GONE MAYBE YOUR FRIEND HAS SADDNESS BEING LONELY ETC SEND HER A SWEET EMAIL MAYBE [FRIENDSHIP EMAIL ] MAYBE SHED LIKE THAT ; IM VERY SURE SHE MISSES YOU ; LOVES YOU STILL MAYBE SHE CONFUSED LOVE WTH ROMANCE EXPLAIN THE DIFFERENCES OK DONT EVER BE SAD I KNOW DEEP HER HEART SHE CARES AND YOUR GODLY YOU DESEARVE ALOT OF GOOD FRIENDS THEY LOVE YOU PLEASE REMEBER THAT OK ILL KEEP YOU IN PRAYER
 
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OFM

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o.k. thanx same here amen allways amen.
 
pickles

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Praying for you both in Jesus Christ is Lord.

God bless
pickles
 
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OFM

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thanx peace bewteen us both my friend and i agian amen....
 
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