Please pray for my relationship <3

if we weren't friends, then what would we be

noooooooooooooooo i want to be with him!!

I understand that but also know that next month you will probably be interested in another guy.

ever since i've been with him i've never been attracted to another guy

Having read this entire thread, I notice a theme going through it. There are alot of "I I I" in your posts. I want to be with him. I don't want to get dumped. On and on..

Rather bluntly, God IS telling you that this kid isn't the one for you. Look at the facts, he flirts with other girls, both in front of you and behind your back. He swears and doesn't care who hears. He has serious home life issues. I'm sorry, but you're allowing yourself to be this kid's door mat. :/ And your supposed BFF? Obviously she doesn't mind the attention he gives her, nor does she mind hurting you by allowing the flirting to keep happening. Stop making excuses, because he isn't gonna stop doing what he's doing, just because it bothers you..

What has to happen before you realize that this is a train wreck in progress? Wake up and open your eyes. He's no good for you.

They may just be friends or they may be more.

Examine your heart.

Does your lack of trust and faith in your by stem from your own confidence issues or is it a sign from God that he isn't the One God wants you to spend your life with?

Don't place all your hope on your bf

That kind of devotion belongs only to God,

I will pray that you draw closer to God and find the everlasting hope in Him for he will never fail you.

I will pray you have a close female friend you can talk to and who can give you their honest and godly comfort.

If he cheats on you take it as a sign that no matter how much you love him, he doesn't really love it respect you. That relationships can't last without trust.


On the other hand if he is truthful and they are just friends, do you see how you hurt him by your lack of trust?

I hope you are open to the idea that people change..your feelings may change, his feelings may change.

Don't cling to tight or you will chase away or kill what you seek to hold.

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I will pray for you, that God will help you rely more on Him than on earthly men.

I will pray for your bf, that he learns the importance of love and honesty and values the gift of love from others.

I will be honest. Your relationship with your bf may or may not work out. Just remember you are a beloved daughter of God And God wants you to be with someone who loves you and treasures you and seeks for your happiness as much as you love and seek theirs.

Pray and ask yourself "are you seeking what God wants or what YOU want?


Are you sure they are the same?

Have you made your desires more important than God's?"

I have faith that the Holy spirit will help you and comfort you with His love and truth if you but seek Him,

Be honest.

It seems like you are saying

" I still really care about you and I can't be just friends right now because the hurt is too much. I need time to heal."

Or shorten it to

"We can't be friends right now, I need time apart"

Pretending will just be a lie and never worked well for me.

Breakups hurt a lot.

When my first bf broke up with me, it shook me and made me question if I was unlovable or something..,it took me a while to see that my worth wasn't based on what a guy saw in me but what God sees in me.

I yelled that at God too, but when I stopped yelling

I heard a small voice ask "does God want you to be with him?"

"Who is the God you worship, one you can bend to your wishes (an idol) or your Heavenly Father, God who created the universe?

<3 oH MY GOSH Y'ALL, SOMETHING AMAZING HAS HAPPENED!!!!!
let's just say that girl got too upset about something and won't be communicating with my boyfriend as much as they normally do anymore
i shouldn't be too prideful, but this is good news for me
and i realized that a lot of the times he was just being friendly with her, and i think i took it the wrong way a lot and was thinking of myself and being way too selfish and perhaps jealous.
however there are a few things i don't think he should have said/done to her
but still, i'm so happy, thank all of you! GOD IS GOOD
one thing though, the both of them still use a lot of profanity and i'd like to pray that'd they'd find jesus, and i could find a godly female friend in my life.

Also, i'm talking to him a little less...it's a start for me

Yeah I feel uncomfortable when folks curse alot. It's probably good that I spend a lot of my day with toddlers when I have a choice lol.

I am glad you are happy again.

As for talking.,,it's not the amount but the depth of the conversation and how it touches your heart that matters.

The people I feel closest to are those I can talk about my hopes and dream, fears and worries, praises and prayer concerns with,

My best friends are those who accept me for me and even when I do something stupid, they still love me.they are people who tell it to me straight and not sugar coat things.if I mess up they tell me.., but they also give me Grace and forgiveness. They are folks I may not see it talk to for months or years but we can meet for lunch and pick up where we left off.

Most of my best friends I went through high school together, God blessed me with one I meet in 5th gtade, we were college roomates and just had lunch over thanksgiving.
.it was great.

I pray that you make lifelong friends with someone who accepts you, and your flaws, yet inspires you to be better.

God bless and keep you.

you guys, my eyes have been opened and i realized i NEED to break up with him. but i don't have the strength. my heart is beating out of its chest.

i need to do it now. can someone please pray with me, I NEED IT NOW! no time to explain! everything is telling me this is what i must do!!!

well, i just did it and i've never felt more sick IN MY WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE. I THINK IM ACTUALLY GOING TO PUKE. but when i broke up with him through text....i heard angels singing, no joke.

i feel like this was the wrong thing to do, i've never felt so terrible in my entire life, this is the greatest pain i've ever had. ;-;

It sounds like stress.

Will be praying.
.how are you now?

I am going to send you a pm. I don't check Christian chat often so just saw your request.

this is really hard for me. i think this what jesus wanted me to do, but i've never felt so terrible in all my life. Not only that, but he didn't take it too well and he apologized twice, and i think he understands what he did wrong, i explained EVERY SINGLE THING that was on my mind. We are both extremely heartbroken, but i knew i couldn't put up with this pain much longer. And he and that girl were fine again shortly after i was rejoicing...this is the worst feeling in the world. My boyfriend is hurting so bad because of me. But he hurt me for months so i guess so you know. I don