Please pray for rather or not I should stay married

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Friend63

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Its such a long story but to make it short. We've been together eleven years and it's been more hell then good. It's like he don't even know me. I just want to be free. I want the stress to stop. He's making me crazy and I don't have far to go to get to crazy.i want peace and quite, trust,love, Christan values ,fun, family and enjoyment he don't give me any of that. But I'm having a hard time letting go because he will spiral out of control with his drinking when I go.i deffenamtly need prayers.. Thanks for your help
 

damombomb

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Father help her , give her peace and direction,let her husband be the man she needs, thank you for deliverance for him, in Jesus name amen
 

shemaiah

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Praying for guidance for you. God bless
 

pickles

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Praying in Jesus Christ is Lord for all that is Gods will , help and healing for both of you.

Hugs and God bless
pickles
 
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shekaniah

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Prayers sent in the love of Jesus!
 
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angel1581

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Hi friend63
God bless you, i will pray as much as i possibly can for you and i really hope that you have the strength one day to walk away from your marriage, God has put you here and blessed you with Himself and He should be at your centre not sadness, we can all pray for you husband and pray that he knows what you feel, not just what he does, i hope im not speaking out of line here with what i say, feel free to tell me otherwise but this is just how i feel and remember God does not hate divorcees! he hates divorce but the people involved is not what he hates!
i will continually pray for you and your husband
i hope the decision you make is best and not just for your husband but you as well, maybe you could help him more if you were no longer married, i know that sounds a little odd but sometimes it takes a couple of steps backwards to see things a little clearer, a new perspective if you like
God bless you
Cara
 
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simplyme_bekah

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Praying that God gives you direction and peace for your relationship and for the knowledge on what it is that God wants you to do. Keep your chin up because you have so many people praying for you that just don't stop. God has a plan, wait on the Lord to direct your steps and he will not lead you astray. Just pray that he helps you to NOT miss what he is telling you to do.
 
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hug-a-bug

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dear god please give delivernce for himand give her peace of mind and work a miracle in her marriage and help him with his drinking in the name of jesus amen god bless and good luck im here if u need me
 
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shirley

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HELLO YOUVE TOUCHED THE SAME PROBLEM I HAVE I YEARN FOR THE SAME THINGS YOU DO ; IM CONSTANLTY BEING PUT DOWN OR YELLED AT I DO THE BEST I CAN FOR EVERYONE I GET NO LOVE ROMANCE OR ATTENTION I ALSO WANT OUT OF MY MARRIAGE BUT I FEAR PEOPLE WILL JUDGE ME ; THEY HAVE NO IDEA WHAT WE GO THROUGH I TRIED WORKING IT OUT THE LOVE IS GONE I WILL KEEP YOU IN SIS OK I KNOW ITS HARD HAVE FAITH OK GOD LOVES NO MATTER WHAT OTHERS SAY
 
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Moe

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I will pray for both you and your husband, however, I would like to know more about your Christian life, how you and your husband feel towards God and Church attendance. I do not need to know anything about denomination. Prayer can be more productive if it can point to a specific thing. This is a request whereby I may be able to help. Moe
 
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3dreams

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Im praying you ,Im going through the same thing minus the drinking.
My Husband left ,came back,and i just found out their are other
women....My heart goes out to you!!
Im praying for the peace in your life,for GOd to bless you at all times...
 
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Friend63

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WELL I GUESS I'M MESSING THIS MESSAGE UP. I WAS WRITING TO YOU AND I DON'T KNOW IF I SENT IT OR LOST IT OR WHAT I'M NOT VERY GOOD AT THIS SORRY I KNOW AT MY AGE I SHOULD BE BETTER AT THIS COMPUTER.I WAS SAYING I MADE HIM LEAVE THIS MORNING AND I'M GLAD THAT SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH.HOPFULLY I CAN STAY STRONG HE KNOWS HOW TO MAKE ME FILL BAD FOR HIM.I HOPE YOU FIND A WAY TO LEAVE OR HAVE HIM LEAVE BECAUSE IF THE LOVE IS GONE IT ONLY GETS WORCE.THATS WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO ME I USED TO LOVE HIM SO MUCH.I THOUGHT GOD SENT HIM TO ME I CALL HIM MY HERO AND SUPERMAN BUT THAT WAS BEFORE I FOUND OUT I MARRIED A DRUNK AND A LIER. IV'E TRIED FOR TEN YEARS TO HELP HIM AND CHANGE HIM.IT WORE ME OUT IT EVEN GAVE ME A NERVES BREAK DOWN TWO YEARS AGO I'M ONLY GETTING SICKER AND SICKER SOME THING HAD TO GIVE.I.M AFRAID GOD WANTED ME TO HANG IN THERE LONGER I JUST DON'T KNOW.I HOPE NOT IV'E DISSAPOINTED GOD ALOT IN MY LIFE AND JUST TRY HARD NOT TO DO THAT SO MUCHNOW THAT I KNOW HOW MUCH HE LOVES ME. I DO KNOW GOD WANTS US HAPPY SO I DID IT.DON'T WORRY WHAT PEOPLE THINK YOU CAN NEVER PLEASE THEM NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO SOME ONE WILL SAY YOU ARE WRONG.DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY I THINK IF WE FILL IN SIDE ITS OK WITH GOD IT PROBABLY IS. THE HOLY GHOST KEEPS US FROM FILLING GOOD ABOUT SIN SO IF YOUR SOUL SAYS IT RIGHT THEM ITS LIKELY IS.I WILL PRAY FOR YOU AS WELL AND THANK YOU FOR PRAYING FOR ME.IF YOU NEED TO TALK SEND ME A MESSAGE I'LL BE GLAD TOO.....TINA.......SHIRLEY THIS IS FOR YOU
 
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Friend63

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DEAR GOD I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR ALL THESE WONDERFUL PEOPLE OUT THERE PRAYING FOR ME. I ALSO PRAY FOR THEM THAT YOU BLESS THEM IN EVERY WAY THAT YOU HELP THE ONES STRUGGLING LIKE I AM TO FIND THEIR WAY THROUGH ALL THE PAIN AND TO BE ABLE TO LAY THEIR BERDONS AT YOUR FEET.KEEP THEM ALL SAFE AND BLESS THEM EVERYDAY....IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN
 

pickles

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Apr 20, 2009
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Continueing to pray for you and healing salvation for your ex. in Jesus.

Hugs and God bless
pickles
 
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shekaniah

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Don't forget to love and respect yourself, it is hard to love some one who does not love themself first.
I will be praying for you...

Luke 10:27
The man answered, ” `You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your strength, and all your mind.’ And, `Love your neighbor as yourself.’ ”

Its hard to truley love others, when you don't love yourself.

Demanding to be respected is self love.