Prayer for my adulterous husband

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I feel like a broken record on here already I'm always coming to ask for prayer on here. Well I caught my husband being unfaithful again this time with an escort.. after all the betrayal n hurt I've been through with this man I still have an unconditional love for him and I don't want to give up on him, which Is why I am asking you prayer warriors to pray for a spirit of conviction over him, I'm have come here in faith that your prayer warriors will help me pray for him.l his name is sheldon Sinclair i also need prayer too as I'm hurting so much right now. I will gladly take any advice offered n if you want to know more please message me
 
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Tinkerbell725

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Praying for your husband. Adultery is the highest form of abuse in a marriage. And it is an acceptable reason to divorce him. You don't have to divorce him if you still hope for him to change but to continue to live with him in the same house is not sensible, that is tolerating sin. Unless he proves that he is changed, don't trust him. Trust is as precious as pearls not to be given to pigs who will only trample on them.
 
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Ariel82

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I would move out and live my life separate from him...continue to keep him in prayer, but don't let him have his cake and eat it too.

There should be consequences for his action. True love leads people into a better version of them...not allowing them to continue to sin and not be chastens.
 

PennEd

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I feel like a broken record on here already I'm always coming to ask for prayer on here. Well I caught my husband being unfaithful again this time with an escort.. after all the betrayal n hurt I've been through with this man I still have an unconditional love for him and I don't want to give up on him, which Is why I am asking you prayer warriors to pray for a spirit of conviction over him, I'm have come here in faith that your prayer warriors will help me pray for him.l his name is sheldon Sinclair i also need prayer too as I'm hurting so much right now. I will gladly take any advice offered n if you want to know more please message me
I am so terribly sorry you are going through this. I wish I could take your pain away. It seems like so many Christians here and at my Church, and especially our small group, are going through painful trials and attacks. A Pastor I follow online sometimes, came up with this list of some of the reasons children of the one true God go through various trials.

I hope this helps you in some way.

Dear Father, we come before you and ask that you give Sinclair NO rest til he rests in Your finished work, and the realization that he can no longer hurt those in his life, especially his loving, faithful, and patient wife. Please give her Your peace that passes all understanding, and a complete joy in the knowledge of You. In Jesus Name I pray.

Why Do Christians Have Trials?
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  1. To glorify God (Daniel 3:16-18, 24-25);
  2. Discipline for known sin (Hebrews 12:5-11; James 4:17; Romans 14:23; 1 John 1:9);
  3. To prevent us from falling into sin (1 Peter 4:1-2);
  4. To keep us from pride. Paul was kept from pride by his "thorn in the flesh" (2 Corinthians 12:7-10);[SUP]4[/SUP]
  5. To build faith (1 Peter 1:6-7);[SUP]5[/SUP]
  6. To cause growth (Romans 5:3-5);[SUP]6[/SUP]
  7. To teach obedience and discipline (Acts 9:15-16; Philippians 4:11-13);
  8. To equip us to comfort others (2 Corinthians 1:3-4);
  9. To prove the reality of Christ in us (2 Corinthians 4:7-11);
  10. For testimony to the angels (Job 1:8; Ephesians 3:8-11; 1 Peter 1:12).
 
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Ultimatum77

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Good advice on here, only thing I would add is to protect yourself healthwise especially if he's been around prostitutes.....will pray for you.
 

blue_ladybug

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Good advice on here, only thing I would add is to protect yourself healthwise especially if he's been around prostitutes.....will pray for you.

Yes, get tested for any STD's.. It's highly doubtful that he has used any protection with these women.. :/
 

tourist

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A man that loves his wife does not betray her through infidelity. Yes, your husband needs prayer but you also need healing from the terrible way that he has hurt you. My advice is to start planning on moving forward with your life with him. I have said a prayer for God to comfort you and to provide clarity of thought in how to proceed.
 

Adstar

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Gods will shall be done...
 
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Thank you everyone for your replies, it means a lot to me. I have my first prenatal appt on Monday and yes I most definitely will be requesting an std test. I know I alone cannot change my husband, but I belive somewhere deep down inside he's not happy with himself and the person he is becoming. And I know the Lord can change people because nothing with him is impossible there's so many scriptures in the bible about prayers being answered. I just want to give Jesus all the praise and the glory he is wonderful. I know he can break every chain!!
 

Socreta93

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If I were in your position I would move out but as you say you still love him. Sadly it seems he doesn't love you back. I am so sorry for you that this has happened to you multiple times. No one should go through the hurt your going through. This is why people are afraid of relationships because they are afraid of getting hurt and heart broken. I pray that you can find the strength to forgive and bring him to Christ (obviously he needs Christ for what he has done) and also for you to stay strong in your hurt. Pray to God and don't feel worthless cause of what he did to you but know God will always be there and you can always trust on him
 

levi85

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My advice, you both come togethe in the presence of the Lord everyday, worship and pray together. Please hold his hands and pray together, as he needs help , Sheldon is weak. Please hold him and pray daily

Father God, please stop Sheldon from defiling his body, stop him and change him to remain faithful to his wife . Lord so please heal and give your peace to Jessicasinclair. We pray please bring them together and yojd be glorified in their marriage life. Lord let your spirit of conviction come upon Sheldon and bless him. Lord please bless Sheldon and Jessica with your love, understanding, peace and joy. In Jesus name, Amen!
 
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CeileDe

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My advice, you both come togethe in the presence of the Lord everyday, worship and pray together. Please hold his hands and pray together, as he needs help , Sheldon is weak. Please hold him and pray daily

Father God, please stop Sheldon from defiling his body, stop him and change him to remain faithful to his wife . Lord so please heal and give your peace to Jessicasinclair. We pray please bring them together and yojd be glorified in their marriage life. Lord let your spirit of conviction come upon Sheldon and bless him. Lord please bless Sheldon and Jessica with your love, understanding, peace and joy. In Jesus name, Amen!
Best advice so far.
 
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iveseenworse

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i have no patience for adultery and jesus gave one remedy for it. you are tenacious for staying together though and i will pray for you both.
 
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I left.. i made in last attempt prayed with annointed put it in shoes on the bed where he slept and he still took off on me and his kids to go do drugs drink and probably sleep around so i called my mom and she came n picked me up.. i feel bad for giving up on my marriage but u felt like i was in bondage not a marriage he was tormenting my mind body and soul it wasnt healthy especially for my children to see mommy crying and daddy always leaving. So please keep me in prayers i need strentgh to get through this and wisdom through this ❤ i didnt know what else to do
 

Socreta93

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I left.. i made in last attempt prayed with annointed put it in shoes on the bed where he slept and he still took off on me and his kids to go do drugs drink and probably sleep around so i called my mom and she came n picked me up.. i feel bad for giving up on my marriage but u felt like i was in bondage not a marriage he was tormenting my mind body and soul it wasnt healthy especially for my children to see mommy crying and daddy always leaving. So please keep me in prayers i need strentgh to get through this and wisdom through this ❤ i didnt know what else to do
I'm so sorry for what you're going through. Like I said earlier, this is why people are afraid of getting into relationships and getting married because of stuff like this. I pray that you can find the strength to go through this not only for you but most importantly your children. You may not want to hear this, keep praying for your husband, not that you have to go back to him but never give up praying for him maybe one day, he'll change.