Prayer I need an home and a job when 18

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soniablue

soniablue

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blue_ladybug said:
You're a straight A student, and that's commendable. :) BUT that does not necessarily mean that you are mature enough to live on your own and survive.. I agree with Lynn, you still have much growing up to do and so does your mom.
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What does mature mean to you? It mean to be fully grown up. I'm a independent girl who doesn't rely on any one. So far I am seeking a job while trying to find a place for me to move or stay which happened to be a one step of becoming an adult as having responsibility. You shouldn't be even talking about my mom. My mother on the other hand isn't abusive as you're while has common sense.
 
soniablue

soniablue

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blue_ladybug said:
Oh I got the joke, sweetie. However the joke is on YOU if you actually think being on your own is going to be one big party,because I guarantee it won't be. It will be very hard, difficult, expensive and frustrating to be taking care of yourself..
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I'm not even you're sweetie. It seem that YOU on the other hand would eventually get the last laugh. Oh trust me it won't be difficult me for me to live on my own while taking care of myself. After all I don't even have to worry about having kids.
 
Socreta93

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soniablue said:
I'm not even you're sweetie. It seem that YOU on the other hand would eventually get the last laugh. Oh trust me it won't be difficult me for me to live on my own while taking care of myself. After all I don't even have to worry about having kids.
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While I agree with everything your saying about being free and being on your own it's probably not wise to pick fights with people here no matter who started it. Remember it's a christian website, lets all be humble here.
 
soniablue

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Socreta93 said:
While I agree with everything your saying about being free and being on your own it's probably not wise to pick fights with people here no matter who started it. Remember it's a christian website, lets all be humble here.
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It doesn't matter that it a christian site or not I have the right to speak what it on mind and confront people. I'm actually baffled to see some respond that are from people that claim to be christian which doesn't have any encouragement whatsoever. What ever happen to love your neighbor? And yet there are 2 user who have comment on this post who doesn't have any ideas or whatsoever how to encourage or comfort other. Do you think this would be a correct way to comment? It more likely their asking an argument with their nonsense.
Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.


From Ladybug:

Newsflash, you are NOT mature enough to live on your own and function well doing so

So if you think being on your own is gonna be a barrel of fun, you are sorely mistaken..

The military? Really Jerry? She's not mature enough to be in the military. She doesn't like being told what to do by mommy.Do you REALLY think she'd do any better taking orders from a drill instructor? I don't..

You're a straight A student, and that's commendable. BUT that does not necessarily mean that you are mature enough to live on your own and survive

Oh I got the joke, sweetie. However the joke is on YOU if you actually think being on your own is going to be one big party,because I guarantee it won't be. It will be very hard, difficult, expensive and frustrating to be taking care of yourself..


From Delept:
With what? Your charm? It's not working for you
 
Socreta93

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soniablue said:
It doesn't matter that it a christian site or not I have the right to speak what it on mind and confront people. I'm actually baffled to see some respond that are from people that claim to be christian which doesn't have any encouragement whatsoever. What ever happen to love your neighbor? And yet there are 2 user who have comment on this post who doesn't have any ideas or whatsoever how to encourage or comfort other. Do you think this would be a correct way to comment? It more likely their asking an argument with their nonsense.
Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.


From Ladybug:

Newsflash, you are NOT mature enough to live on your own and function well doing so

So if you think being on your own is gonna be a barrel of fun, you are sorely mistaken..

The military? Really Jerry? She's not mature enough to be in the military. She doesn't like being told what to do by mommy.Do you REALLY think she'd do any better taking orders from a drill instructor? I don't..

You're a straight A student, and that's commendable. BUT that does not necessarily mean that you are mature enough to live on your own and survive

Oh I got the joke, sweetie. However the joke is on YOU if you actually think being on your own is going to be one big party,because I guarantee it won't be. It will be very hard, difficult, expensive and frustrating to be taking care of yourself..


From Delept:
With what? Your charm? It's not working for you
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oh there are people on this site like you said who like to fight people's opinions especially us young people. But like I said do what you want to do and prove everyone who doubts you wrong
 
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soniablue said:
Well that person should have keep his or her comment to their selves. Instead of acting arrogrance and rude. This person obviously doesnt know how to counsel people while not having any manner what so ever.
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"This person" has three years of counseling young people under my belt. You?
 
soniablue

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Socreta93 said:
oh there are people on this site like you said who like to fight people's opinions especially us young people. But like I said do what you want to do and prove everyone who doubts you wrong
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And there people like you who doesnt have a brain or single idea what exactly going on. You might as well keep youre mouth shut or keep thing to to yourself instead of assuming me that Im trying to pick a fight with with people in this post. Do I honestly care that people online in this site doubt me nope I have better things to do in life so I aint wasting my time in trying to proving things to you since youre nothing but a complete stranger who seem to be begging for an answer.
 
soniablue

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WineRose said:
How did this simple prayer request turn into a hostile firestorm so quickly?
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Dont know I guess some of these people here are too sensetive and can get offend easily. Even though Im only asking a simple prayer request. I bet if that person has ask the same question as I who happen to be their close friends, relative or neighbor these people who actually give encouraging advice instead of having a stupid mentally to give nonsense thought or opinion about their selves.
 
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Sonia, some day you will look back on this and think
to yourself, wow I really didn't have a clue.
Believe me we have all been there, we were all your age once.

Anyway I hope you find what you are looking for, although I suspect that what
you think you need and what you really need are poles apart right now.
Maybe you need to seek God a bit and build a relationship with Him, ask
Him what is the right thing to do.
 
blue_ladybug

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Do you have a job? Do you have a vehicle? Do you have a place to live? How about 3 months worth of rent and references?How will you pay all your bills?? Electric, phone, cable, etc. When landlords rent a place, they usually want at least $1500, which is equivalent to 3 months of rent, to secure getting the apartment. Maturity does NOT mean that you're an adult. Maturity is how well you handle with whatever you do.. So like others here have said, living on your own will NOT be easy.


soniablue said:
I'm not even you're sweetie. It seem that YOU on the other hand would eventually get the last laugh. Oh trust me it won't be difficult me for me to live on my own while taking care of myself. After all I don't even have to worry about having kids.
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blue_ladybug

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YOU are the one who came here asking US for prayer and guidance. Yet all you're doing is copping an attitude, telling people to shut their mouths and mind their own business. IF you manage to get on your own, and you speak to your boss or landlord like that, you'll find yourself homeless and broke in no time. Your attitude is immature, Sonia. Better change it if you expect to succeed at anything you want to do..


soniablue said:
And there people like you who doesnt have a brain or single idea what exactly going on. You might as well keep youre mouth shut or keep thing to to yourself instead of assuming me that Im trying to pick a fight with with people in this post. Do I honestly care that people online in this site doubt me nope I have better things to do in life so I aint wasting my time in trying to proving things to you since youre nothing but a complete stranger who seem to be begging for an answer.
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I will say a prayer for you to find a job and a home for when you turn 18. I will also pray that things can be worked out with your mother whether you stay with her or not. May you be comforted and may God be praised.
 
soniablue

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Naboth said:
I will say a prayer for you to find a job and a home for when you turn 18. I will also pray that things can be worked out with your mother whether you stay with her or not. May you be comforted and may God be praised.
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Thank u at least there are some people who are capable of understanding other. I'm going to try to work thing out with my mother and help more out the house.


Lol I'm not even going to bother to respond or read Ladybug comment since she or he happened to not get a clue enough to understand that I'm ONLY ASKING FOR PRAYER THAT ALL!!!
I DIDN'T EVEN ASK ABOUT YOURE OPINION WHATSOEVER OR THOUGHT ON HOW I'M GOING TO MOVEOUT AND SURVIVE!!!
If you think that I have an attuide or not mature enough that fine by me. After all we were born different.
 
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soniablue said:
Thank u at least there are some people who are capable of understanding other. I'm going to try to work thing out with my mother and help more out the house.
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That is
good to hear. Sometimes she may be hard to approach because for one she Is busy, then again she may be grouchy not knowing how to enjoin you to help. Thats how i am sometimes when everyone's still out in the late afternoon and i have to catch up when theres not even one i can ask for help abt details=). I know some parents who would rather not ask the children to do some things for they are much slower in finishing, and do things differently. But both have to learn to work some things out together, right?
 
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