Prayers for my brother

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shawny_boy

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Hey everyone. I need prayer for my brother. I should explain his situation a bit. He has aspergers syndrome among other mental issues, and is currently living in a group home to help build life skills. The reason I ask for prayer is that over the last several years, he has become increasingly depressed and emotionally empty. He is 28 years old, but mentally is around 14. He can't keep any sort of job and doesn't like being around people. He went into this group home with high hopes of getting some real life skills with the end goal of being able to live independently. He is 4 months into his 6 month stay at this group home, but he has completely checked out mentally. He is obviously depressed, though he wont admit it. He doesn't eat (He's lost 12lbs this week. The care takers are now actively making sure he eats enough). doesn't shave and sleeps all day. His biggest problem is that he has no hope for his future. He thinks his future is going to be what it is now. He has no friends to speak of, no job, no hobbies, he stays in his room all day listening to music, going on the internet, and reading his bible. That has been his daily life for the last 10 years or more. We try to get him out and doing things, but he has no drive. All his life people have told him that he is stupid, and that his interests were stupid. He used to love running! He would run and run, until some jerk told him that he ran weird, and since then he's stopped completely. He used to love drawing, until someone told him that he wasn't good at it. Because of his Aspergers, he basically lives in his own mind. He dwells on the insults that people have thrown at him, and its torn him down into an empty shell of hopelessness. He's told the family in the past that the only reason he hasn't killed himself is that he would never get to see God. His faith is all he has. We (the family) are at a loss. He has no desire to try new things, or go on outings with the family. He just exists, he isn't really living. Please pray that God would do something miraculous. I'm praying for something big here... My brother is a wonderful person with a kind soul. I love him to bits and he deserves to have an amazing life, but we don't know how to get him back.
 
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psychomom

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Abba, thank You for this young man who loves his brother.
May I learn compassion from him.

I ask that You show Your own perfect love and compassion
to Shawny's brother in Christ Jesus.
Grant him peace, for Jesus' sake, amen.
 

pickles

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Try finding simple ways to show him how much your family needs him, and ask his help in these small deeds. :)
Then in time, find small ways to bring him to help others.
For it is often in helping and loving others, that we discover Gods love for one's self.
He is in my daily prayers in Jesus.

God bless
pickles
 

levi85

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Lord Jesus we bring him to you, please heal him, completely, so that he will worship and give thanks to you, Amen
 

freed4ever

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Abbie,
I too have a story such as yours but my brother is now 53 years old he to has a issue about being depressed and has about the same story as your brother in his life, I have been taking care of him now for about 5 years in hopes he will snap out of it one day when God see's fit, I think it is unfair that 3 out of four of us turned out ok but he has had this mental illness as the doctors like to call it to where I believe the devil plays a heavy in keeping him in his snare and I have prayed many times over on this and my prayers hasn't been answered yet. All I know we are to love one another unconditionally and God will bless us all at the end where ever and when ever that time comes. The people that down grade your brother just do not know any better and every one as you know is not like that but it plays a big part in your brothers life, but a better role in his life is you and those that really care about him as I do mainly because he is special and has a talent that glorifies one on one with God as you do. I know I haven't found the answer why my brother is the way he is but I do know God loves him very much with that being said just remember your never alone and you do not have to fight this by your self keep loving him as he is at a very tough age where ever thing can make or break his love and trust in a sometimes mean world, I will pray for him and if there is any time you would like to chat just give me a e-mail I will return it and help build a better life for both of you as the Lord revels what I understand.

God Bless
Robert
 
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Heavenly Father, we pray for You to restore confidence in shawnyboys brother. Renew his interest in things he enjoyed and give him a heart for new things. Keep him from the evil people who would discourage him. Thank You Lord.