i'm thankful that redtent will be getting the care that she needs and deserves now. it seemed that it was not an 89 year old woman doing some of her post, i even was urged to ask her before, (are you really an 89 year old?) just because the post didn't seem like it was her. Now i see that it was possibly her care-taker posting, huh. this makes me sad that she had an abusive care-taker, and that she had to go through that, but things will get better for her. Any-body that has elderly parents should do what they can to help take care of them, because a lot of horrible stories of people that need assistance, getting these wolves in sheep clothing to care for them. i'm glad my question of, ( is that really you redtent?) may have been answered. i didn't want to disrespect you redtent, so i never asked. God Bless you all that have a heart for redtent, it seems that if she see's the love for her on this site that it could help in her healing.