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shortydoe

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I have been going through a very rough time in my marriage i pray alot every time the pain get to be to much however each day it seems to be getting worse, my husband is going through a mid life crisis, all the symptoms , i have doen everything the forums tell me back off, dont bring up the relashionship, to just let him work it out himself, I thought with this advise and prayrs something would be getting a little better but no now he goes over to his woman friends almost every day just to spite me. how do i know GOD is listining if he could send me a little clue, i don't know wheather to stick this thing out or to move on. God please let me know if you are hearing me.
 
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kenisyes

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I do not agree with not bringing it up. Letting him work it out is fine, but God has put you in his life to part of his solution.
 
damombomb

damombomb

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Put your foot down sister. He is a grown man.
 
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simplyme_bekah

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Oh our Lord is hearing you and I pray and ask that he gives you the direction you need to be a better help to your husband and to your marriage and to yourself, I pray and ask on Jesus name amen.
 
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shekaniah

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Prayers sent for you
God Bless, Shekaniah
 
pickles

pickles

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Shorty, only God can change your husband, but you do have to speak to the wrongs.
Im sorry if I was not spacific, please forgive me.
keep us updated, for you are not alone.
Continueing to pray in Jesus for him, you and your family.

Hugs and God bless
pickles
 
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shortydoe

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I finally got him to talk he said he felt depressed that the other woman was just a friend and he was not giving up a friend because nothing is going on he is still stopping there at least 3 times a week, staying for 2 hours or more, i cook dinners and he might come home and eat or stop there, i keep prayin that is all i can do, i do not undrstand this at all. still spending hours and hours with other friends also, he might spend 1 day a week with me but he swears he loves me to peaces, i ask why he doesnt spend time with me then and dont get much of an answer. I feel others praying has helped and i will still keep praying. thank you all.
 
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shekaniah

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shortydoe said:
I finally got him to talk he said he felt depressed that the other woman was just a friend and he was not giving up a friend because nothing is going on he is still stopping there at least 3 times a week, staying for 2 hours or more, i cook dinners and he might come home and eat or stop there, i keep prayin that is all i can do, i do not undrstand this at all. still spending hours and hours with other friends also, he might spend 1 day a week with me but he swears he loves me to peaces, i ask why he doesnt spend time with me then and dont get much of an answer. I feel others praying has helped and i will still keep praying. thank you all.
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I pray God gives you wisdom.
Look up the 40 day lovedare.

www.40daylovedare.com

It is Christian based...
It might give you insight :)
Keep us posted!
Love & Blessings, Shekaniah
 
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TexasHallelujahGal

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shortydoe said:
I have been going through a very rough time in my marriage i pray alot every time the pain get to be to much however each day it seems to be getting worse, my husband is going through a mid life crisis, all the symptoms , i have doen everything the forums tell me back off, dont bring up the relashionship, to just let him work it out himself, I thought with this advise and prayrs something would be getting a little better but no now he goes over to his woman friends almost every day just to spite me. how do i know GOD is listining if he could send me a little clue, i don't know wheather to stick this thing out or to move on. God please let me know if you are hearing me.
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Abba Father by the authority and in the name of Jesus Christ we ask that you bind the spirits pulling this marriage apart we ask to bind leviathan and jezebel and the principality and powers as well as the rulers in this experience and bring this union to you lord bring love and compassion and understanding and forgiveness into the marriage send Holy Spirit to counsel each one per their need lord Thy will over this . we ask a hedge of protection around the husband against spiritual attackof the jezebel spirit wherever he goes . rain peace on their lives lord Glory to God amen
 
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shekaniah

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Prayers sent for you both again.
 
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