Relationship problems!!:(

No! No!

That is NOT your FAULT, but his.

He is the ONE who wantd to leave (not you) and, if you were my daughter, I would be happy he is planning to leave you because, if he LEFT WHEN MARRIED, that would hurt me the more.

My you sort out that before loosing your chaste.

By the way: God DOESN´T MISLEAD PPL.

It´s us who failed. He is NOT tossed one way or another.

May the Almaighy make you stronger and smarter.

Thanks for your advice!

you´ve blessed me to!

Thnaks!

Lord bless confused99 to walk in your ways, and praise your name, bless confused99 in her relationship with her boyfriend, Lord bless them, to have a good relationship, and also let them develop a good relationship with you. yes Lord God, we ask in Jesus loving name, Amen!

Thank you so much for that! It's very encouraging. It's just so hard to trust God with something so important to me.

I'm praying in Jesus name,Amen.

Thank you. I greatly appreciate all your prayers.

Cut the strings, sister....your bf just told you something very important: "GOD didn't want him in the relationship". What more do you need? If it is meant to be..then certainly GOD will ordain it and approve it. Do not let your heart over rule the fact that your bf actually told you...."GOD does not want me in this relationship". Do not argue with him, do not try to pull on his shirt sleeve and beg for a 2nd chance. HOld your head up high, and thank GOD that this did NOT continue and that 'getting caught in the lust" was a one time fling, as you claim. Learn from this, and move on...knowing that GOD is looking down on this matter. Leave it in GOD's hand and find another 'fish in the sea"....and I am a male telling you this. Everything is NOT perfect if your X boyfriend put GOD in the equation to let you know that he is really wanting to break up. Let him walk away. Do not lower your standards. Enjoy what GOD has planned just for YOU!!!!!

Thank you for your insight. However, neither of us are sure it's God in the first place telling him this. I have overthunk things in the past which made me have a bad feeling which I thought was God. After calming down with some prayer and scripture, I realized it wasn't God at all but my own mind. I'm wondering if it's the same case for him. Is there any way you can test to see if a thought is from God if it doesn't go against the Bible?

OF course it is his own mind telling you that GOD does not want him in this relationship..no argument there. That is the danger if you keep persuing this. Allow your X bf space so that a future decision can be made. Meanwhile, do not TEST GOD...let HIM test you...stay apart as lovers and see how things go. Do not "WONDER"..do not worry if your bf is 'going against the BIBLE"..etc. In fact, do NOT worry over this at all.....take is as a solid sign that things need to change before they get worse. Besides..what is the rush right now...is marriage in the making? Is insecurity raising it's head? Why do you need to have a bf who tells you that "GOD does not want me in this relationship". Take this as definite message as real as it gets....Stand up for yourself, stand up and believe that GOD has this under control and start a new direction, seeking what plans JESUS has for you, personally..and let a future bf occur in the future.

Ok thank you for your thoughts!

Well is that really God saying that to him by Scripture backing? or is that thought of his own? If its his own thought, then you need to ask him what and how these thoughts came to him, and try see what sparked the doubt. We all know that doubt comes from the enemy. But your boyfriend cannot claim its from God unless he has scripture back up and a legit calling to do something that God asks.

I would sit him down, have a chat with him, let him speak and try to explain, his reasons, and see if you can compromise with him with prayer. and seek God's true will in this relationship, and seek true answer from God. only then you will be sure its not from your boyfriend but from God if it's legit.

Learn to listen to God's will. Prayer should be first before all or any relationships, that way you are involving God's true will. Because less face it, no one knows us more than God, so he knows who matches who. But it's how much you trust God.

Thank you so much! I agree 100%! I've told him my concern that it's not God, and he's thinking about it and praying to see if he can determine it. We are both praying very hard about this.