sickness in husbands mind

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Dec 31, 2012
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Just when i feel i can move on my husband does something strange to make me feel i need to pra;y for his mind to heal, He stopped last saturday i was gone to my daughters track meet im usually here he left a note that he had left money, my neighbor said he stormed off, well I need to be here for my daughter not waiting around for him he had not stoped here in a week, my car was here but i had gone with a friend from work who is trying to help me get out, this week he stoped here i was at the store and my daughter was home, she said he had walked here his truck was no where in site, he is staying half an hour away so he must of parked his truck somewhere and walked,? I feel he is very messed up and it is mid life crisis, most of my friends say there is no such thing but i have read about it and it is real, Please,,,,, Pray for his mind to heal before it is to late, I am feeling like he will bring me down with him if he is not healed, I can not deal with his crazy anymore, I am 51 and need to enjoy this time in my life before my children are completly grown and on there own,, I pray every chance i get but to no availe. Please Pray with me.
 
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jkalyna

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Your feeling discouraged. He is feeling inadequate in areas, of parenting, relationships, etc. It is never too late with the LOrd, he is always on time, and turns the time back to the right time. Lord really your words are right and true, that all our rightousness is as filthy rags, Lord. We try to have faith but we all fall short of it. Please help this mother and give her a great gift of peace, send help to this man, let the HOly Spirit speak to his mind, Lord and bring restoration in all his affairs, with life in Christ Jesus the LOrd's Holy name. Amen. Rejoice in the LOrd always......
 

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jess_4

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Praying for you! If you put all of your hope and trust in God, there is no way your husband can bring you down. Pray for him continuously, and yourself. Don't give up because that's what Satan wants you to do. Do NOT let him win! This may be Gods way of seeing how much faith you have in him. Keep your trust, and don't give up. Praying for your stength through this struggle!
 
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hattiebod

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You are the daughter of THE king, you cannot be brought down. Stand on His promises, believe in His power & authority. Pray for your husband, pray for healing and restoration in your relationship, believe it can happen! Because that is what we are to have, hope, endless hope, love & forgiveness and we only stop, when God tells us! Focus on the good, speak positive, speak of hope not fear. Fear is not of God! You may have an idea of what you want, what you deserve....but God may not have such a plan for you! God may need you to be His arms, His love in action toward your husband....treat your husband as if he were Jesus! Allow the heart of Jesus and His love for you, His forgiveness for you, drive you on, strengthening you to be the woman He calls you to be. A woman, regardless of the circumstances who is an awesome witness to her family, husband, friends, who is victorious!! No matter what happens. God Bless you and give you peace. <><
 

pickles

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Praying for you and with you in Jesus Christ is Lord come in the flesh.


Hugs and God bless
pickles
 
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I do not want to give up , I am told i am a very strong woman, however this is bringing me to my knees, I dont know if God wants me to be strong or to find someone who will show me respect and love as i give, This is what is so hard I don't know which path the Lord wants me to take I keep praying but for so long now don't have an answer. I will keep Praying and will try to be patiant but it is all hurting so much. Thank you for your Prayers.
 
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shekaniah

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Shortydoe,

My heart feels for you.
You are right men do go through hormonal changes too,
And the nic-name for it is minlife crisis.

Here is a quote I found:

"A wise man once said to me, “Men spend their twenties not caring who they are, their thirties becoming who they are, their forties figuring out who they are, and their fifties trying to change who they are.” I guess this is why he bought a Corvette, listened to rap music and wore gold chains in his fifties. He was being philosophical about a mid-life crisis."
Man-O-Pause website

It would do you good to read online that you are not alone.
I will be praying for you and your family.
Hang in there!
<3 Shekaniah