Wife Left

My wife and I were married for 12 years. She was my high school sweetheart. I loved her with all my heart and I still do. I am in a lot of pain. I really need prayer. I am trying to contact her but she doesn't answer me. Is this God's way of telling me I should let her go? I feel lost and don't know what to do. Please pray I can find peace, joy and healing. Thank you.


She left you for another Guy then she is unworthy of your love anymore.. I think you clearly should file for a divorce and take time to heal and move on the best you can.. I know what they say once a cheater always a cheater. That line is pretty much true. So say she comes balling back to you oh my goodness I made a huge mistake blahh blahhh. It will only be a matter of time before it happens again... I am sorry for your pain and I am sorry for being blunt. But your a young Guy you have time to mourn the break up from her and find you an amazing woman who will not do these things to you

I too hope she returns to me. I can't stand being without her. Today completes one week. I have flooded her phone with voicemails that I filled up her mailbox. I hope she soon realizes how much I love her and need her.

wow a few people are actually condoning her taking off and cheating on you.. Take it from me who has been cheated on several times.. I forgave and stood by my husband and I will let you know I do not have any trust in people anymore especially him. Our trust was broken and that is very hard to repair. I just want you to know that things will never ever be the same if she were to come back and try to be with you you will be forever wondering why you were not good enough. What is she dong while she is supposed to be at the store etc.... There is a reason why Moses had a cheating couple stoned to death.. It destroys a marriage to no end... Sorry once again I am not giving you what you want to hear probably but you need to think about your hurt as well. You need to seriously think if you can just get over what she has done if she were to come back... etc,, So I have told you only a few of many things that will creep up on you if it were to happen you getting back together.

Update: My wife and I talked. We are not getting back together. She is pregnant with this other man's child. It can't be mine because we haven't been together in over 6 months. I am okay. I am slowly accepting it. I do not want her back anymore. In her talk she told me that she had cheated on me 4 times. None of those guys are the one she is with now. I am glad that she has left me because I wouldn't have been able to handle all those affairs. Plus, she owes it to her baby to try and make a family with this other man.

I am taking things slowly. She has filed for divorce. We did stop fighting and I don't call her anymore. I am okay. Not great but I am better than I was a few weeks ago. Thank you guys for everything! I really appreciate it. Please pray I can move on.

I think what hurts the most was that I always wanted to start a family with her. Now she got pregnant with this other guy...it sucks.

My wife and I were married for 12 years. She was my high school sweetheart. I loved her with all my heart and I still do. I am in a lot of pain. I really need prayer. I am trying to contact her but she doesn't answer me. Is this God's way of telling me I should let her go? I feel lost and don't know what to do. Please pray I can find peace, joy and healing. Thank you.


Also, I thought I would point out that she left me for another guy. This breaks me even more.