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Jordache

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I'm working through my issues with my mom and part of that process for me is systematically going back to redefine moments. My mother has narcissistic personality disorder. Currently I am working through one point before my birth. I am blessed to have a validating counselor. Yesterday she told me what my did before I was born is the most disturbing thing she's ever heard in over 10,000 hours of practice. I was sabotaged. My mother knew my fathers perversion. She caught him molesting my sister. But she told me she didn't leave him because se was desperate to have a daughter. 3 years later with a little trickery from my mom I was born.
 
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simplyme_bekah

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Lord I lift up Jordache to you my Heavenly Father. I pray that you bring your healing touch to every part of her soul, heart, and mind. Jordache just remember that you have the choice on how you allow any other human being to affect you. Every time something happens that affects you....run oh run to our Jesus. In him you will find comfort and direction and healing. Try to not get stuck in the past. Try to train your mind away from the past and your parents mistakes. People are so so so lost without our God and do rather horrid stuff to others and themselves. Its a dark and fallen world that we live in but you are a child of God. Claim the peace of God on Jesus name. He will give you that peace no matter what you are dealing with if you simply turn your face up to him and call on him. He is your everything. He will meet your every need. When fear and horror try to take over remember that God is for and with you and use this as your cue to run as fast as you can to him.
 
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Lucy68

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Praying for you and your mom :)
 
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shekaniah

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Praying for God's healing touch to be with your hearts.
In His love, Shekaniah
 
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wwjd_kilden

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Praying .
 
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psychomom

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Jordache...I'm so sorry! :(

Although the past may help us understand some things, our lives are not there. There is a mystery, and it is that you are hidden with Christ in God.
Whatever happened, you were born, and for that I am truly thankful. The Lord used your mom to accomplish His own good and perfect will, and this is never a bad thing, dear one! Jacob had a similar mother, but was it outside God's will that he obtained his brother's blessing?
I ask that the Lord will reveal Himself to you, and that you will feel and know that you are wanted! you are comforted! you are preciously loved!

love,
ellie
 
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pickles

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Hugs Jordache, you are and continue to be in my prayers in Jesus, as He heals you and blesses your life.

God bless
pickles
 
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