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  1. IBDesmond

    Is chat down?

    I don't know if it's just the internet that I'm using which is rubbish or whether chat is actually down. I tried to look for a thread about it but couldn't find one so I figured I would post in the Single's forum where most of my CC famalam is!
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    NON-CHRISTIAN MUSIC PROMO

    (I read the guidelines and rules and it didn't say anything about post non-christian music) Hi peeps! To any aspiring muso's, you will understand how hard it is to promote yourself. I've tried every possible avenue I can think of (soundcloud, twitter, facebook, instagram, got my own website...
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    No escape

    Ever feel like you're in a house of mirrors trying to escape someone but no matter where you turn, you're faced with reflections of them, sometimes near or in the distance. You become consumed with frustration and a overwhelming realisation that as much as you're trying to escape...you don't...
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    Potential Energy: Hate being single?

    Even those of us comfortable in our single life have moments of feeling alone. Maybe it's because you're lying to yourself about being comfortable being single? Maybe it's your suppressed insecurities surfacing? Maybe it's our ambiverted personality? The same personality trait that has us...
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    Random thought: Is it wrong to do the right things for the wrong reasons?

    I was literally just talking to my friend and thought I would put it out there. Is there any harm in doing the right thing for the wrong reason? The reason I ask is because I used to work out all the time. Not religiously or intensely. Just....kind of, "recreationally" haha. I've been...
  6. IBDesmond

    Marrying because of your struggle with sex

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    Single Men It's Time to Step Up!

    I agree completely. Whether that girl has several children or not, what she did after said son, is somewhat irrelevant. It takes too to tango and unless it's rape, both parties are as bad as each other. .....aaaaaand I digress
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    Single Men It's Time to Step Up!

    With all due respect (cos I totally hear what you're saying mate, I can see where you're coming from), I don't think this has much to do with it. I can't see a guy not stepping up being because he's scared he'll sleep with her and give her a child that he doesn't see but pays for and all the...
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    Marrying because of your struggle with sex

    I keep coming across the topic that if people are struggling with sexual immorality, impure thoughts, etc, they should get married because that's what the bible teaches. Now, this is not a scripture that I have looked into but I can't help that think that this scripture (1 Corinthians 7:9) is...
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    I'VE CRACKED IT!!!! FOLLOW THESE RULES TO BE IRRESISTIBLE TO THE OPPOSITE SEX

    At only 24years young, I can't believe I've cracked it. Guaranteed if you follow this post, you will be absolutely irresistible to the opposite sex. This will guarantee you a happy marriage, a happy life, a happy family, the full premium top of the range package of life. No life is without it's...
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    Make him wait! Make him work! Make him sweat!

    Hypothetic scenario based on real events: She sat there cladly dressed. She had every insecurity on show yet manage to so tightly saturate herself in garments of pride and bravado with an undertone of lies. More than anything she was lying to herself. "I'm so done with men!" she exclaimed...
  12. IBDesmond

    Ladies...please form an orderly queue but....

    Despite already having the amazing qualities of being English, Christian, and absolute Eye-Chipotle.....my sister bought me Lordship for Christmas
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    I know it's not a dating site but...

    I know it's not a dating site but does that mean we can't do things to increase the chances of us meeting someone on here. I just find it kind of bizarre that people would complain about being single and not finding anyone and etc etc, but wouldn't put up a picture of themselves on here. I...
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    Has anyone ever used this site/forum to meet someone?

    I'm pretty closed minded to the idea of online dating sites and such and such. Ironically I by no means have any negative opinions of those who use them but they're just not for me. Still, I was wondering if anyone has ever used this site/forum, or IS using this site/forum to perhaps meet...
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    IS THERE ANYONE ON THIS SITE FROM LONDON?!?!

    The purpose of me joining this site is because I'm trying to find a room mate for when I move to London: My name is Jonathan but I'm informally known as Des. I'm looking for a Christian flatmate for when I move to London this summer. Preferably christian and down-to-earth (don't worry...
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    The less you look, the more you find

    I'm sure I speak on behalf of most people when I say I often get sick of being do single. Not dating every hot girl that shows you attention and waiting for an "equally yoked" female to come along is starting to feel like waiting for signs of life on mars. I often express my frustrations and...