Thanks guys......
I've never understood why some people demand that I and my family are somehow obligated to serve them and thousands of people for free with no compensation (and I don't know how that's even possible). Yes we need funds to support our work, and yes we have significant operating expenses (and actually the labor should be considered an operating expense as well).
So yes, the subscription system (where some features are only for subscribers) does help fund our operation and keep the site going.
Incidentally, or rather purposely, it also helps protect our site from abuse. When private chat was open to all new members, there were a lot more annoying pm's to ladies, and we had a lot more blatant abuse to deal with (things reported that happened in private chat, such as cyber sex attempts, spamming, etc.). But I guess Aaron79 also insists that somehow we are obligated to dedicate our lives to serving him (and thousands of people) in dealing with all the abuse in private chat as we serve him for free and pay for everything for him.
Anyway............
Truth be told -- not that anyone can or should expect this from us -- we actually do serve thousands of people worldwide for free (many never giving anything for years of service, and sometimes very personalized service), with many many free features and access. But instead of appreciate all the free service, some users like Aaron79 want to actually fault us and demand more (and even quote scriptures insinuating that we're a "den of robbers" because we have a subscription fee for some extra features).
Another thing. My family and I concluded a long time ago that we simply do not want to serve such people. We much rather devote our time and limited resources to serving people who have a little more gratitude and who aren't here to bash us in any way. Hence, I am banning Aaron79 and I take full responsibility for that. Perhaps he should stick to Facebook where maybe he'll get more "free" features (while making Facebook filthy rich).