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I think Kayla speaking for blue over and over is ridiculous quite frankly. Kayla, this isnt your problem!!. Sorry to sound so "straight forward" but it irritates me to no end the gang up mentality on this site. You dont have a dog in this fight. Stay out of it.
 
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One more thing. "Calling someone a name and not provide evidence". Was that referring to me. And yes I'll see if I can link it somehow.
You are very understanding thanks so much :) Could I add you as a friend?
 
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Are you sure? She may not be known for being judgmental but she was being exactly that. Really?? I'm thinking you read everything. You don't know what you're talking about then. When you do see the thread, you will see exactly what I'm talking about. I don't know why you're taking her side maybe because you both are ridiculously old. Old people never seem to like younger people :/
Hey hello I like you, but I've never grown up lol. I once had huge problems and a girl from church said: that is not normal the way you behaved! Oh really? She was much younger than me. Age doesn't matter. Some people just don't get it that you can't talk like that. Just forgive them. Who cares? I've gotten used to people judging and looking down on me. It doesn't ruin my mood anymore. Good luck and God bless!
 

HoneyDew

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I'm going to add one thing it may say "Christian Chat" but not everyone who joins the site is a Christian. This is a general statement not referencing anyone. When you put yourself out there, you just never know what you are going to get back. Even if someone says something that you don't like, you don't have to respond and it ends right there. Just something to consider for posting in the future.
 
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kaylagrl

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Oh no you didn't read it all?? Lol it was beaucoup to read but I did eating popcorn and things gotten heated fast. But then some lady came and closed the thread. Yes she probably should have private message her instead good idea. From all the things Brittany have posted, she sounds like a great person who made one little mistake and thought she could turn to CC for help but all people did was bash her. Not everyone but most. You have to be careful about what you share with anyone on the internet.
It may be closed but you can still read the posts. So if you know where it is,please link it. Otherwise this thread is unfair.
 
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kaylagrl

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One more thing. "Calling someone a name and not provide evidence". Was that referring to me. And yes I'll see if I can link it somehow.
No, not referring to you at all.
 
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kaylagrl

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Are you sure? She may not be known for being judgmental but she was being exactly that. Really?? I'm thinking you read everything. You don't know what you're talking about then. When you do see the thread, you will see exactly what I'm talking about. I don't know why you're taking her side maybe because you both are ridiculously old. Old people never seem to like younger people :/


Quote "Really?? I'm thinking you read everything."

You can think what you like but then you'd be calling me a liar. I read a few of the posts as I said. The first post and a few of the later ones.


Quote "I don't know why you're taking her side maybe because you both are ridiculously old."

And that right there is the attitude. "Ridiculously old",great insult to folk on here that are twice my age.Im sure they'll appreciate that.

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I don't know why you're taking her side"

Im not "taking her side" You're the one making a thread about a person and calling them names,not me. Im pointing out that what you are saying is not Blue Ladybugs character and its wrong to call her names.


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Old people never seem to like younger people :/"

You're being ridiculous,nasty and immature. And you've well proved my point about who you really are.Now you have two people to block.
 

melita916

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as others have said, put the person on ignore. you won't be able to see any of his/her activity.

i would like to add: the internet can be a wonderful tool. we have to keep in mind that on CC, we have people from all walks of life and backgrounds, including experiences. when we post on the forums asking a question or advice, we will get answers from all directions. that is a risk we take each time we post. also, since it's all typed, tone gets lost in the words. a person could be typing in a nice tone (to him/her) but the person on the other said reads it differently.

we can't control how a person responds to our posts, but we can control how we react to it. let's try to give each person the benefit of the doubt. let's do our best to keep the peace and be respectful with all :)
 
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Quote "Really?? I'm thinking you read everything."

You can think what you like but then you'd be calling me a liar. I read a few of the posts as I said. The first post and a few of the later ones.


Quote "I don't know why you're taking her side maybe because you both are ridiculously old."

And that right there is the attitude. "Ridiculously old",great insult to folk on here that are twice my age.Im sure they'll appreciate that.

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I don't know why you're taking her side"

Im not "taking her side" You're the one making a thread about a person and calling them names,not me. Im pointing out that what you are saying is not Blue Ladybugs character and its wrong to call her names.


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Old people never seem to like younger people :/"

You're being ridiculous,nasty and immature. And you've well proved my point about who you really are.Now you have two people to block.
Yea you're right I apologize. Why would I block you?
 
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kaylagrl

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I think Kayla speaking for blue over and over is ridiculous quite frankly. Kayla, this isnt your problem!!. Sorry to sound so "straight forward" but it irritates me to no end the gang up mentality on this site. You dont have a dog in this fight. Stay out of it.
Listen,I stick up for anyone on here,I would do it for you. If I feel someones character is being maligned I will speak up because I was taught that was the right thing to do. But I'm so ridiculously old I may not remember what I was taught exactly.So I will speak up for those I know here and for their character.If you want to defend this young pup and her nastiness,so be it. But I defend people,thats what I do,its what Ive always done. Im not ganging up on anyone,this person should not have made a thread against lady blue or anyone else. Its mean and immature. Someone did this not long ago and I did the same thing,stood up for the person being maligned. But if little miss attitude is being Christlike to you and you want to back that horse you're free to do so. You are new here.I know lady blue and I know her heart,neither of you do.And I will continue to stand up for her and others.If you dont like it,block me. People here will tell you I am always fair.
 
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as others have said, put the person on ignore. you won't be able to see any of his/her activity.

i would like to add: the internet can be a wonderful tool. we have to keep in mind that on CC, we have people from all walks of life and backgrounds, including experiences. when we post on the forums asking a question or advice, we will get answers from all directions. that is a risk we take each time we post. also, since it's all typed, tone gets lost in the words. a person could be typing in a nice tone (to him/her) but the person on the other said reads it differently.

we can't control how a person responds to our posts, but we can control how we react to it. let's try to give each person the benefit of the doubt. let's do our best to keep the peace and be respectful with all :)
You're so right. Maybe I'm reading it differently then the person who has written it. I really did think CC was a safe place and I thought everyone here was Christan but I was wrong. Thanks so much for letting me know this :) btw....the way I talk to people on here, I wouldn't dare say it to them in person. I have more respect than that. But I won't post anymore threads about anything. It's like there's more evil people here than people like you. We need more people like you lol :)
 
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kaylagrl

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You're so right. Maybe I'm reading it differently then the person who has written it. I really did think CC was a safe place and I thought everyone here was Christan but I was wrong. Thanks so much for letting me know this :) btw....the way I talk to people on here, I wouldn't dare say it to them in person. I have more respect than that. But I won't post anymore threads about anything. It's like there's more evil people here than people like you. We need more people like you lol :)
Quote "I thought everyone here was Christan...there's more evil people here than people like you


Really? Come on really? Not a Christian and evil.And what you're doing is Christlike? And people wonder why I'm speaking up. smh
 
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Listen,I stick up for anyone on here,I would do it for you. If I feel someones character is being maligned I will speak up because I was taught that was the right thing to do. But I'm so ridiculously old I may not remember what I was taught exactly.So I will speak up for those I know here and for their character.If you want to defend this young pup and her nastiness,so be it. But I defend people,thats what I do,its what Ive always done. Im not ganging up on anyone,this person should not have made a thread against lady blue or anyone else. Its mean and immature. Someone did this not long ago and I did the same thing,stood up for the person being maligned. But if little miss attitude is being Christlike to you and you want to back that horse you're free to do so. You are new here.I know lady blue and I know her heart,neither of you do.And I will continue to stand up for her and others.If you dont like it,block me. People here will tell you I am always fair.
You gotta be kidding me.... Don't talk about me calling someone names when you're doing the exact same thing. That person was right. It's not between you and I. I can make a thread about anyone who annoys me. Do I not have that right? You might know blue ladybug but you definitely don't know her heart. The only person that knows her heart and everyone's heart is Jesus. Can you go away now?
 

melita916

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You're so right. Maybe I'm reading it differently then the person who has written it. I really did think CC was a safe place and I thought everyone here was Christan but I was wrong. Thanks so much for letting me know this :) btw....the way I talk to people on here, I wouldn't dare say it to them in person. I have more respect than that. But I won't post anymore threads about anything. It's like there's more evil people here than people like you. We need more people like you lol :)
also remember that sometimes, the truth is rough, but it still remains the truth. it's like when we put alcohol on the wound. it stings, but it's for our own good. as i mentioned, we are all from different walks of life. many people on CC have been through a lot of junk in life. some are going through junk as i currently type this post. but as Jesus said, we are to treat others as we want to be treated. He didn't say for us to wait for them to do it first. we are to be the difference :)
 
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Quote "I thought everyone here was Christan...there's more evil people here than people like you


Really? Come on really? Not a Christian and evil.And what you're doing is Christlike? And people wonder why I'm speaking up. smh
I am a Christian who makes mistakes. I'm not evil and neither are you.
 
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kaylagrl

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You gotta be kidding me.... Don't talk about me calling someone names when you're doing the exact same thing. That person was right. It's not between you and I. I can make a thread about anyone who annoys me. Do I not have that right? You might know blue ladybug but you definitely don't know her heart. The only person that knows her heart and everyone's heart is Jesus. Can you go away now?

What names have I called you? Immature is not a "name". You do have a right to post about anyone that annoys you and I have a right to comment about it. Thats free speech.And yes you can know a persons heart by the way they speak. As far as going away I will tell you the same thing I said about blue,anyone can comment on any post.There are no rules against making a comment on any post. And I'll comment where and when I like.
 
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Hey hello I like you, but I've never grown up lol. I once had huge problems and a girl from church said: that is not normal the way you behaved! Oh really? She was much younger than me. Age doesn't matter. Some people just don't get it that you can't talk like that. Just forgive them. Who cares? I've gotten used to people judging and looking down on me. It doesn't ruin my mood anymore. Good luck and God bless!
Yes I know age doesn't have anything to do with it. I've only said it does just because lol idk. I do apologize for that though. It's a little hard for it to not bother me. CC is definitely not for me as you can see. Thanks so much for sharing your story :)
 

PennEd

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You're so right. Maybe I'm reading it differently then the person who has written it. I really did think CC was a safe place and I thought everyone here was Christan but I was wrong. Thanks so much for letting me know this :) btw....the way I talk to people on here, I wouldn't dare say it to them in person. I have more respect than that. But I won't post anymore threads about anything. It's like there's more evil people here than people like you. We need more people like you lol :)
Using the term "safe place" is usually a dead give away. ... Just sayin