I have been through some tough times in my marriage, when we were younger. But neither of us cheated, we held to our marriage vows. I prayed for him when he was floundering spiritually and he did the same for me. We even separated twice, once for only a month, the second time for 10 months.
I can can honestly say we have the best marriage now. I think our troubles cane more out our personal troubles, than our marriage. When I look back, I sometimes wonder how we made it. Then I realized God did the healing,, the helping and the counselling.
We've been married coming up 34 years. How long have you been married? What seems to be the biggest issue in your marriage?
What are the strengths and weaknesses of your relationship? Are you getting counselling, and are you both Christians? These are the kind of questions you need to think about. PM me if you want to chat.