Depression can kill me! I need your prayers and encouragement

I am female and single. I was saved and accept Jesus 3 years ago and if compare with my past life it's very different. Months ago, I was active on our church in worship team but lately I stopped. I fall in love with my church mate. He is single too. In short, we have mutual understanding and committed PMS. I'm always depressed because since then, I know I have a feelings towards Him but why He always says He loves me but not even stand it by proving that we have already a relationship. I am emotionally unstable. I cried out to God because I am guilty of sinning. And I want to stop this but seems so hard for me. Please, I need your advice

Is PMS pre-marital sex? Sorry my mind is in the gutter, its 2 a.m. And every topic that pops up seems to be about sex, drugs, or rock an roll...

To the depression thing... One thing that always keeps me going is... If anything we feel in this world pales in comparison to the pain we feel in hell... Why would I go awe man that scratch on my arm hurts better cut off my arm... You know what I mean???

Hello Fleny,

Once when you committed sin, it wont leave you. Its a lust. It will definitely kill us, if we try to avoid it. It will be very very difficult. I can say that a normal Human being cannot be separated from these two once he tasted it. one is lust and another is Money.

Try to put God in 1st place. Wake up early morning and pray to God and study Bible., Try to live like Jesus. As Jesus said, He had gone through all temptations we are going now. Seek Him, He will give strength / way to overcome any temptation.

I would have warned severely if it happened in India.. But your culture is entirely different and i cannot comment on that. But i can see that PMS before Marriage is sin as per our Indian people Law. so, we wont encourage it. we will push them to marry immediately. wont leave them alone. or if that guy is avoiding to marry, he will get punishment.

God bless you Sister Fleny,

First end that relationship. It will not draw either you or the man closer to God. You both will become filled with condemnation and shame. God does not want that for you, a daughter that He loves or for that young man. If he is unwilling to marry then he is not the man God has for you. Don't waste your time. Your future husband is waiting so keep yourself pure for God and for the man He has chosen for you.

Pray for forgiveness and wisdom, ask the Lord to give you the proper words to end the relationship and don't give up hope. The Lord the knows the desires of your heart and when you put Him first, you'll be surprised how quickly He acts.

I love you sister. Go and sin no more. Why don't you both get married?

Repent. If you are a sinner you are an enemy of GOD.

If you read the very first line the OP wrote it says 'i was saved...'. In fact, it's because of her salvation that she feels the way she does, if you had read the post properly.
Second, i really doubt that your comment is going to have any positive affect on bringing people to God. Its cold, short and somewhat antagonistic. It serves nothing to help her in any fashion, and makes more of a case against God, than for God, when you present it the way you did.

Been there honey. You just have to pick up and move on. Repent and renounce. Try to adjust things so it doesn't continue, but ask for the Lords grace. There is victory.