GOD Gave me everything, but I don't want it!!!

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TCSA

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hi all...

This has been hurting me for so long...

God has blessed me with pretty wife, young son, and daughter on the way; I own a house, and have a good job. It has been over tow years since I owned this house.

I feel this is it... life is going on the same level till the day I die!!! I want to get rid of everything, and start a challenge again.... I want to leave everything, and go abroad to continue high studies, and obtain a very high degree... If I will do this, I know I will lose the whole family, if I don't lose the house too...

Being thinking of this driving me crazy and gets me away of my consideration...


GOD... Please... Please... If leaving everything is GOOD for me, let me know... I believe in this, you know all the best and the bad, you know the results if things going to happen this way; and you know the results if things will happen the other way; GOD! please guide me to the best of ALL... Ameen.
 
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GOD_IS_LOVE

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The best of all is Jesus Christ, and His gift to you of eternal life, if you put your trust in Him.
 
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Ugly

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God is not likely to want you to abandon the family you CHOSE to have so that you can selfishly run off to do the things you want to do. You made the choice to get married, don't look to God to get you out of it because you changed your mind.
 
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Tobby17

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Ugly said:
God is not likely to want you to abandon the family you CHOSE to have so that you can selfishly run off to do the things you want to do. You made the choice to get married, don't look to God to get you out of it because you changed your mind.
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This looked a tad bit harsh as i was reading it, but it's true..lol

Why are u praying to God though to teach you to leave ur family?.. I don't get..lol
 
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Ugly

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The truth can hurt sometimes. I'm not going to water things down so people don't get their feelings hurt, especially not with people who are already behaving selfishly to begin with. Sometimes it works better to take a softer approach, but when a 'man' is trying to shirk his family, his responsibilities, his commitments, and all trying to do so with God's approval and the prayerful support of other Christians, then yeah, i'm going to get harsh.
 
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akirarene

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I understand people have passion or for wht ever reason, but maybe its not passion(or whtever) maybe it's fear or depression or sadness that drives you.. Pay attention to why u really want it, did u ever really want a family in the first place..
 
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TCSA

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Thanks guys...
I read your replies. It is not about being selfish or not! I want to take my family with me, but not at the first stage! I need to settle myself, arrange things, then call them! That may take 2 years or a little longer!!

I did not want family at the first stage! I actually wanted wife! BUT the children came already unwanted!! by the way; two of them are adapted. I feel sick of this life, there is nothing changing! same routine, same everything!! I want to change the life, work, concept, committee, society... everything!! I am not just asking GOD the approval to do something wrong! or to put the blame on him!!!! he will always fare people!!
 
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jkalyna

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TCSA said:
hi all...

This has been hurting me for so long...

God has blessed me with pretty wife, young son, and daughter on the way; I own a house, and have a good job. It has been over tow years since I owned this house.

I feel this is it... life is going on the same level till the day I die!!! I want to get rid of everything, and start a challenge again.... I want to leave everything, and go abroad to continue high studies, and obtain a very high degree... If I will do this, I know I will lose the whole family, if I don't lose the house too...

Being thinking of this driving me crazy and gets me away of my consideration...


GOD... Please... Please... If leaving everything is GOOD for me, let me know... I believe in this, you know all the best and the bad, you know the results if things going to happen this way; and you know the results if things will happen the other way; GOD! please guide me to the best of ALL... Ameen.
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RIGHT EACH DAY IS A CHALLENGE JUST NOT TO GET WHERE YOU ARE MENTALLY RIGHT NOW.
 
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FeeBee

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My husband of 18 years recently walked off and left me and our daughter. Because of his selfishness, we have lost everything. Our house that him and his father completely remodled. He has caused us and his immediate family much pain. Think about what you are doing, some things are not reversable (peoples feelings). My daughter was very close to her Dad before he walked out, now they hardly every speak. He'd rather spend his time with his girlfriend's children than his own daughter. It is so sad.
 
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Ugly

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TCSA said:
hi all...

This has been hurting me for so long...

God has blessed me with pretty wife, young son, and daughter on the way; I own a house, and have a good job. It has been over tow years since I owned this house.

I feel this is it... life is going on the same level till the day I die!!! I want to get rid of everything, and start a challenge again.... I want to leave everything, and go abroad to continue high studies, and obtain a very high degree... If I will do this, I know I will lose the whole family, if I don't lose the house too...

Being thinking of this driving me crazy and gets me away of my consideration...


GOD... Please... Please... If leaving everything is GOOD for me, let me know... I believe in this, you know all the best and the bad, you know the results if things going to happen this way; and you know the results if things will happen the other way; GOD! please guide me to the best of ALL... Ameen.
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Your first post and your second are in direct contradiction to each other.
 
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AnandaHya

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when you say "God" do you mean Allah?
 
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aprilandkeion

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A merry heart makes a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken. The heart of him that has understanding seeks knowledge: but the mouth of fools feeds on foolishness. All the days of the afflicted are evil: but he that is of a merry heart has a continual feast. Better is a little with the fear of Yahweh than great treasure with trouble. – Proverbs 15:13-16
 
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pickles

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TCSA said:
Thanks guys...
I read your replies. It is not about being selfish or not! I want to take my family with me, but not at the first stage! I need to settle myself, arrange things, then call them! That may take 2 years or a little longer!!

I did not want family at the first stage! I actually wanted wife! BUT the children came already unwanted!! by the way; two of them are adapted. I feel sick of this life, there is nothing changing! same routine, same everything!! I want to change the life, work, concept, committee, society... everything!! I am not just asking GOD the approval to do something wrong! or to put the blame on him!!!! he will always fare people!!
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The challange and goal should be peace in all circomstances.
Scripture says, man may plan his course, but God determines his steps.
Commit all to God, and He will guide your steps, your desires will more likly be answered and granted when you trust all to God in Jesus.

God bless
pickles
 
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MarTaa_Pt

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Be the CHANGE you want to see in your world!
 
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Lucy68

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TCSA said:
Thanks guys...
I read your replies. It is not about being selfish or not! I want to take my family with me, but not at the first stage! I need to settle myself, arrange things, then call them! That may take 2 years or a little longer!!

I did not want family at the first stage! I actually wanted wife! BUT the children came already unwanted!! by the way; two of them are adapted. I feel sick of this life, there is nothing changing! same routine, same everything!! I want to change the life, work, concept, committee, society... everything!! I am not just asking GOD the approval to do something wrong! or to put the blame on him!!!! he will always fare people!!
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In your first post you called your wife and children blessings but here you don't sound happy about them at all. There are other ways to make your life interesting rather than jettisoning your family...if you left them for 2 years this is what you'd be doing. You'd be abandoning them. Do you really think God would be happy with that? I wonder if He'd send you anymore blessings after that.

You can think of ways to make your family life BETTER for everyone involved. Even when children come along before planned, life can still be VERY GOOD. It is what YOU make of it....get busy and get creative and please read and study the Bible and Christ's teachings. The Bible will open up your mind to good ideas and give you direction.

Things are not hopeless because you are unhappy. EVERYBODY deals with unhappiness. But happiness really is a choice...you just have to work at it. The Holy Spirit will help you to do this. And bring the family along with you. You will glad you did :)
 
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nnanna

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well the lord is my shepherd i shall not want he make me to lie down in green pasture that is the word of GOD for every believer
 
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