So you hate me cuz im gay

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Ramon

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#61
How does one live as a follower of Christ when they are being attacked for being gay. Is it so wrong that God has made me this way? Yet you tell me that God is grateful for the way i was made. What have i done but be myself around you, open, honest, and respectful. I am now regretting my decision on becoming a Christian because of the comments i get. Do i just delete this site from my favourites page and forget that i ever came here? Because that's how im feeling right now. Hurt, destroyed....rejected; from the so called followers of Jesus.
Anyone who hates you because you are gay does not know Jesus Christ, and is not a follower of Christ. However, anyone that practices these things that God forbids does not follow Jesus Christ either. God did not make you that way, you chose to do that. Everyone will have to answer to God, and neither our ideas nor the lies we believed will be worth a thing. NOT A THING! Because I love you I tell you to repent of this wickedness, which is in deed wickedness as all other iniquity is. Anyone that enjoys iniquity will not enjoy hell (There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth). Anyone that follows Jesus also obeys him, and no one is a child of God who serves sin. You are now responsible for your own life if. I have told you the truth, if you will not hear it, you don't answer to me, you will answer the Lord himself. Please repent of this. May Jesus bless you blueteardrop, haven't seen you in a while.
 
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freeIndeeed

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#62
When sin entered the world, defects began to occur. Just as you were born gay, I was born alcoholic. What I choose to do with this is my choice. Do I blame God? or do I try to do His will.

We ALL face sin daily and either repent or continue in sin.
 
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freeIndeeed

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#63
this post shouldn't be in testimonies
 
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BeauBLESSED

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#64
Perhaps Kasteil felt that Testimonies was the most relevant place in which to instigate this thread.
 
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freeIndeeed

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#65
The thread is good, honest question, and I don't hate anyone. Guess I don't understand, how is BlueTeardrops origional post a testimony of what God has done for her?
 
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BeauBLESSED

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#66
That I can't say, but it would be safe to assume that she wanted to attract the right audience to her query, a mature, thoughtful audience... kinda like how the different TV networks operate.
 
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clarymatthew

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#67
well i have never posted on this site but lets see if this works, being gay, O lord help me speak kindly. what this is , is a spirit, demon or what ever you would like to call it. do feel bad pretty much every christian in the world has spirits on them. you need to trully ask yourself if God dont want me being this way am i willing to stop, do i love him that much, bu you cant stop right, it would be like me stoping being stright, well your right there you cant stop, but Jesus can help you with that, he can get rid of the spirit, because we fight not against flesh and blood. God does love you so much and can free you. seek him no matter what it means. look up ruckuz01 on youtube i think she can proble help, she was gay too. God freed her. God bless much love to you.
 
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AnandaHya

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#68
The thread is good, honest question, and I don't hate anyone. Guess I don't understand, how is BlueTeardrops origional post a testimony of what God has done for her?
its her testimony of what happened to her on this site that is supposed to be dedicated to God so I think its works. lol have you noticed who comments or post on the other threads?

Singles are the dating crowd.
Bible discussion are rather argumentative.debating (cough cough) or struggling to understand scripture is the politically polite way to say it
Miscel.are people with an active sense of humor, or just plain random
Prayer are the sad, spiritual, sometimes thankful and praising God or just needing someone to stand with them while they talk to God
Testimonies are storytellers.

well that is how I see the people who start the threads, the people who respond like reading those type of things, right?

lol me, I read and comment on everything. lol.
 
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AnandaHya

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#69
Anyone who hates you because you are gay does not know Jesus Christ, and is not a follower of Christ. However, anyone that practices these things that God forbids does not follow Jesus Christ either. God did not make you that way, you chose to do that. Everyone will have to answer to God, and neither our ideas nor the lies we believed will be worth a thing. NOT A THING! Because I love you I tell you to repent of this wickedness, which is in deed wickedness as all other iniquity is. Anyone that enjoys iniquity will not enjoy hell (There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth). Anyone that follows Jesus also obeys him, and no one is a child of God who serves sin. You are now responsible for your own life if. I have told you the truth, if you will not hear it, you don't answer to me, you will answer the Lord himself. Please repent of this. May Jesus bless you blueteardrop, haven't seen you in a while.
alright RAMON. STOP. PAUSE. HALT. TAKE A FEW DEEP BREATHES.

everyone else please ignore I need to upbraid and rebuke a few statements contained in the above post.

Know Ramon that I still love you as a brother in Christ but first

1. the people might not "hate" her, they might "hate" the sin as you do and she misunderstands and takes it personally

2. they may be mistaken and are too harsh but that does NOT mean YOU can tell people they don't know Jesus.

3. you just said being GAY means she can't be CHRISTIAN or KNOW JESUS. Judgement that you do NOT have the authority to tell her, APOLOGIZE and REPENT.
Do not judge people before their time. We are all works in progress.






ok that being said. to the author of the post, my previous statement stands. God loves you, but lust of the flesh are sins we all must resist so that we might be holy and perfect children of GOD. Pray to God for the grace and faith to resist that temptation. I will pray with you. Your sister in Christ.


YouTube - The Black Eyed Peas - Where Is The Love?
 
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clarymatthew

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#70
i cant speak for everyone else but i would never want to beat you down for any kinda sin even being gay, but you must understand that sin is sin and must be repented of, Christ does love you and can help you, but you must be willing. i do trully love you, i do, i know i dont now you but thats besides the point. the love of God that is in me is the only way i could trully love anyone and that love is for ever soul
 
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Ramon

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#71
alright RAMON. STOP. PAUSE. HALT. TAKE A FEW DEEP BREATHES.

everyone else please ignore I need to upbraid and rebuke a few statements contained in the above post.

Know Ramon that I still love you as a brother in Christ but first

1. the people might not "hate" her, they might "hate" the sin as you do and she misunderstands and takes it personally

2. they may be mistaken and are too harsh but that does NOT mean YOU can tell people they don't know Jesus.

3. you just said being GAY means she can't be CHRISTIAN or KNOW JESUS. Judgement that you do NOT have the authority to tell her, APOLOGIZE and REPENT.
Do not judge people before their time. We are all works in progress.






ok that being said. to the author of the post, my previous statement stands. God loves you, but lust of the flesh are sins we all must resist so that we might be holy and perfect children of GOD. Pray to God for the grace and faith to resist that temptation. I will pray with you. Your sister in Christ.


YouTube - The Black Eyed Peas - Where Is The Love?

Anyone that practices sin does not follow Jesus Christ. And God approves of no sin. If you have not first repented of sin, you cannot begin to follow Jesus Christ. The message of Jesus was, at first, REPENT! FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND! Judgment is not what I say. Judgment is whether a person is obedient to Jesus Christ or not. And if anyone dies in iniquity they will not enter heaven.

Again if anyone hates gay people they do not follow Jesus Christ either, who never taught anyone to hate people. If we love God, let us obey Jesus. May Jesus bless you.
 
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BeauBLESSED

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#72
That's your opinion.
 
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Jobsdaughter

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#73
I'm new here, but I would like you to feel welcomed. I have experienced things that no one believes, I am a sinner and yet God loves me and kept me during some scary times. I personally am not qualified to judge you, as I hope you will not judge me. I offer you my friendship.
 
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See, THAT'S the reason why I'm an Atheist (I'm on this site to give advice, not to be a Bible-thumper). Anywho, the Bible's just a book written by a bunch of sexist & homophobic men. Someday, Christianity will be a myth just like Greek mythology. Don't let these guys get you down. If anything, remove your account from here if they offend you so much. I support you, and I wish you the best of luck. <3
 
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clarymatthew

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#75
Do you not understand what it means to give a reason for the hope within you in kindness and love? What if your words instead of healing only cause a greater wound? sure your doctrine is right but what is the point of doctrine if all you do is turn people away from Jesus with it?
i agree with what you say, we should always walk in love and speak in love, but that dont mean to not tell someone that they will go to hell for not repenting fron the act of homosexuaility, that means to stop doing it, the fact of the matter is , is that it's a spirit, and it must be cast off, but mean while everyone is more worried about offending then then speaking truth, the word says that God will tell the goat to go into ever lasting fire and torment. i think if you tell someone that no matter how loving you say it they will not like it. and say your not being loving, the fact of the matter is that most would rather be acceped on earth and burn in hell then to be hated for truths sake and be with Jesus, tellin g someone that is gay that Jesus loves them and then not telling them that he HATES the fact that they act gay, is in no way loving tham, Jesus said i tell you the truth because i love you.
 
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NrDthExp

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Jesus came to me in a near death exp. when I was 12. I had some visions at 35, now I'm 49 and I finally hear Him clearly! He said to me:

"All this concern over sin and evil saddens me. If you focus on sin and evil, you will see and reap sin and evil. I dedicated my life to teaching that the old covenant is dead. What the Pharisees taught was to keep you oppressed. As I have said, the letter of the law kills but the spirit gives life. To him that it is sin it is sin, but to him that it is not if it harms not, it is not. The law of God is written in the hearts of men, not in the Koran, Torah, not in the Bible. If you lack wisdom ask. Do as I did, look within for the Holy spirit. If the letter, the word, if the law, if my body, my blood was the path to salvation, than all would already be dust. If your right hand causes you to sin, then why haven't you cut it off? Why have you not plucked out your eye? Because just as you cannot be perfect with two hands or eyes, you will never be perfect with one.

What does your conscience tell you? Are your motives and intentions those of love and compassion? Then darkness cannot touch you. I am the son of Man...as are you. We are One. Do not worship me! I am not an idol, nor is my cross. I did not come that you would worship me, Jesus, but The Holy Spirit who dwells within me, and also within you. I was merely the first to expose the dangers of doctrine, the evil of politicizing spirit by creating a standard, a set of steps one must take to be loved without judgment. I stood up to those who could not tolerate the idea that God was not in the Torah, not in the Temple, but within them, and that they were in Him…that they and God were One as all is One. How can that which is imperfect be perfect…only All is perfect. No word, no matter if said by Moses or David or Mathew or Ruth…no word of any volume is less than written by God, or more than written by Man, and subject to the scrutiny of one's God-given mind. He who is greater than all imagining cannot be summed up by the words of anyone. Learn from the wisdom in the word but do not worship or exalt those words. I went to the Father so we could be One. We are all but drops in the same Ocean. Love thy Lord God with all your heart, mind and soul. Love your neighbor as yourself. Let compassion be your guide. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone and nothing will separate you from God."


Writings referring to men lying together as an abomination were referring to the abomination of male-male rape, a practice widely accepted to proclaim victory over one's captors in battle in ancient Babylon. After the rape, they would urinate on them, truly abominable. Much different than love. It's not about the act, it's about who you fall in love with. Could you fall in love with a member of the same gender or commit to be alone the rest of your life? What if you woke up tomorrow and it was illegal to marry the opposite sex? All TV, radio etc. portrayed only same-sex relationships? What if you could lose your job, your friends and family if they found out about your spouse? That is what it's like to be gay. I've been a gay Christian for 30 years and I've never felt closer to God. What would Jesus do, forget about contemporary Christianity, Religion, doctrine...Jesus did not have his teachings written, they were written in response to Roman decree to get protection from persecution 40-60 years later. The Truth...and deep down in your heart you know what it is and it's different for all of us. Trust your heart, for therein lies the Truth and it shall set you free.
Thanks for listening...be content.









 
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angelos

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Jesus came to me in a near death exp. when I was 12. I had some visions at 35, now I'm 49 and I finally hear Him clearly! He said to me:

"All this concern over sin and evil saddens me. If you focus on sin and evil, you will see and reap sin and evil. I dedicated my life to teaching that the old covenant is dead. What the Pharisees taught was to keep you oppressed. As I have said, the letter of the law kills but the spirit gives life. To him that it is sin it is sin, but to him that it is not if it harms not, it is not. The law of God is written in the hearts of men, not in the Koran, Torah, not in the Bible. If you lack wisdom ask. Do as I did, look within for the Holy spirit. If the letter, the word, if the law, if my body, my blood was the path to salvation, than all would already be dust. If your right hand causes you to sin, then why haven't you cut it off? Why have you not plucked out your eye? Because just as you cannot be perfect with two hands or eyes, you will never be perfect with one.

What does your conscience tell you? Are your motives and intentions those of love and compassion? Then darkness cannot touch you. I am the son of Man...as are you. We are One. Do not worship me! I am not an idol, nor is my cross. I did not come that you would worship me, Jesus, but The Holy Spirit who dwells within me, and also within you. I was merely the first to expose the dangers of doctrine, the evil of politicizing spirit by creating a standard, a set of steps one must take to be loved without judgment. I stood up to those who could not tolerate the idea that God was not in the Torah, not in the Temple, but within them, and that they were in Him…that they and God were One as all is One. How can that which is imperfect be perfect…only All is perfect. No word, no matter if said by Moses or David or Mathew or Ruth…no word of any volume is less than written by God, or more than written by Man, and subject to the scrutiny of one's God-given mind. He who is greater than all imagining cannot be summed up by the words of anyone. Learn from the wisdom in the word but do not worship or exalt those words. I went to the Father so we could be One. We are all but drops in the same Ocean. Love thy Lord God with all your heart, mind and soul. Love your neighbor as yourself. Let compassion be your guide. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone and nothing will separate you from God."


Writings referring to men lying together as an abomination were referring to the abomination of male-male rape, a practice widely accepted to proclaim victory over one's captors in battle in ancient Babylon. After the rape, they would urinate on them, truly abominable. Much different than love. It's not about the act, it's about who you fall in love with. Could you fall in love with a member of the same gender or commit to be alone the rest of your life? What if you woke up tomorrow and it was illegal to marry the opposite sex? All TV, radio etc. portrayed only same-sex relationships? What if you could lose your job, your friends and family if they found out about your spouse? That is what it's like to be gay. I've been a gay Christian for 30 years and I've never felt closer to God. What would Jesus do, forget about contemporary Christianity, Religion, doctrine...Jesus did not have his teachings written, they were written in response to Roman decree to get protection from persecution 40-60 years later. The Truth...and deep down in your heart you know what it is and it's different for all of us. Trust your heart, for therein lies the Truth and it shall set you free.
Thanks for listening...be content.









I'm sorry that you see it that way... to get your view across you have to eliminate almost the entirety of scripture.
 
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nolongertangled

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hey blueteardrop

well here is something i learned awhile ago from my pastor.
God wants us to have fellowship with fellow beleivers so we can talk about our struggles and pull through together. He didn't create us so we could be alone.

7 Again I saw something meaningless under the sun:
8 There was a man all alone;
he had neither son nor brother.
There was no end to his toil,
yet his eyes were not content with his wealth.
“For whom am I toiling,” he asked,
“and why am I depriving myself of enjoyment?”
This too is meaningless—
a miserable business!

9 Two are better than one,
because they have a good return for their labor:
10 If either of them falls down,
one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls
and has no one to help them up.
11 Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm.
But how can one keep warm alone?
12 Though one may be overpowered,
two can defend themselves.
A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.
Ecclesiastes 4:7-12

What i've learned over the passed few months is that the devil is real. He wants to take us out of God's hand and keep us away. He does anything the can to do this. I didn't really understand this until a few months ago. The devil doesn't want us to have fellowship with fellow beleivers, he tried to put us in lonley places. Being alone causes us to become selfish, you think to can do it on your own. But the truth is, you can't. So don't leave the site because of what people may think. We all struggle but God created us to help. You never know who could be sharing the same struggles as you.