Would you marry a woman with underdeveloped breasts? I am 50 and am so insecure, i feel that I would love to marry a man with an
Underdeveloped man part because we would understand and accept and love each other for how God made us.
What is this? Underdeveloped? Underdeveloped breasts?
What's the name of that Hollywood woman who chose mastectomy. She didn't have cancer, but was apparently high risk. Her husband...can't remember his name, but women love him. What does he do? He stays with his wife. Brad Pitt. That's the guy.
I don't know what underdeveloped is. Even so, wishing or feeling uncomfortable in our skin is a bit normal.
You are 50 and insecure. Understandable. Yes, a great number of men are drawn to looks and certain measurements. But some get past that, and many others don't care.
Question: How would you know if the guy is a few inches short? When would you ask? On the third date? Maybe one year into the relationship? Do you hand him a questionnaire on the first date: What is your size? Or, do ask when he proposes? If so, conversation like this
Man: "Will you marry me?"
You: "Are you endowed?"
Man: "Yes."
You: With some disappointment "How much so?"
Man: Gives his size.
You: "That's too big for me. I can't marry you."
So what if he does understand you, what then? I understand you want bigger breasts. Do you understand how I feel? I want a bigger thing. Such feelings and expressions actually weaken self confidence. First the issue is about you. You will want him to give you confidence. But he's not confident. So then the issue about him. Then back and forth.
If you believe God created you that way, then be glad. I mean look what Hollywood creates? Busty women who act like fools. Idiots. Shallow.
You see. Any man can get a woman with large boobs. A one night stand. Some may even find long term, marriage.
Eventually intimacy with the woman will be more important than the body. Mature men know that.
The last thing a mature man wants is boob headed woman. Even if she does have two outstanding boobs.
It ain't your boobs that are underdeveloped, it's your heart and mind. Listen to the truth. God loves you. And if you give men a chance, you'll find many men who are interested in you, your thoughts, your ideas, your beliefs, you goals, your aspirations.
I'm still curious how you would know if the man is long or short.