My husband says we're "seperated". But god doesn't see it that way... And we're not legally seperated either ...here it is 11:30 and he left a 6. I haven't herd from him at all.. Am I over reacting?? I feel like I'm being walked all over..and I'm the "good wife " that stays and does what god tells me...how do I suppose to live like this? He has no respect for me...
Am I crazy??
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You are not crazy, you just live in a crazy time (unwanted seperation), when the emotional reality does strange things.
My partner told me over a year ago now, that the relationship is ended (after 13 years) and we only seperated (as in differnent living appartement) in oktober (11 months later). In between there were so many times, when I thought we were together. And then times, when he said, no she is only a friend. And my feelings for him went between love, hate, distaste to joy.
If and when you livve with that you endure it, because god gives you strength, if needed and a way to let go of the desperate hold on whatever worldly thing, you hold on to.
God is with you, but a relationshipcrisis can be a long thing, and as there ate two people involved, it might not end in easy togetherness. You have to trust god with the life of your partner.
My partner told me over a year ago now, that the relationship is ended (after 13 years) and we only seperated (as in differnent living appartement) in oktober (11 months later). In between there were so many times, when I thought we were together. And then times, when he said, no she is only a friend. And my feelings for him went between love, hate, distaste to joy.
If and when you livve with that you endure it, because god gives you strength, if needed and a way to let go of the desperate hold on whatever worldly thing, you hold on to.
God is with you, but a relationshipcrisis can be a long thing, and as there ate two people involved, it might not end in easy togetherness. You have to trust god with the life of your partner.
J
that is really hard to take ( i remember coming home one day from work and my now ex had packed up and moved out and left a note) think it is not a time to overthink... but maybe some quiet time with GOd, and not rehash your relationship but i feel you may need to have GOd heal you from this hurt and give you strength and wisdom on how to move forward... i do feel if you move too fast ( tends to be out of emotions when this happens) things can get more complicated
I believe God is a GOd of restoration and i always feel it is His desire to help a couple continue in their vows
praying for you
I believe God is a GOd of restoration and i always feel it is His desire to help a couple continue in their vows
praying for you
Marriage is never about living a perfect life. Instead, it is about 2 people growing, changing, and relearning to love the other person, over and over.
Right now, you have experienced terrible pain from what your husband is doing. Please look at ways you can change yourself. Talk to him, pray for him. But do take care of yourself. Don't let him use or abuse you.
Praying that God changes his heart and you can reconcile. God is a God of reconciliation.
Right now, you have experienced terrible pain from what your husband is doing. Please look at ways you can change yourself. Talk to him, pray for him. But do take care of yourself. Don't let him use or abuse you.
Praying that God changes his heart and you can reconcile. God is a God of reconciliation.